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8 to 12 Months Before the Wedding
Select a wedding date and time.
Decide the type of wedding you would like to have (size, formality, and setting).
Begin your guest list.
Consider possible color schemes. Explore pre-marital counseling.
Start health and fitness plan.
Select your professional: photographer, caterer, consultant, music, etc
Shop together for your wedding rings.
Decide upon your budget.
Determine who will pay what expenses.
Book your wedding location(s).
Choose your attendants.
Determine the sizes of your attendants.
Select dress and headpiece, and set a date for fittings and delivery.
Select your bridesmaids' dresses and accessories.
Give thought to your honeymoon location.
5 to 8 Months...
Check the requirements for marriage license.
Select and discuss your color schemes with the florist and/or balloonist of choice.
Again consider pre-marital counseling.
Reserve your wedding day rental equipment (tables, chairs, china, silverware, gazebo, etc.).
Decide upon a gift registry and select your gift choices.
Begin your record of gifts received.
Send thank you notes as soon as possible.
Order your invitations and related stationary needs.
Start shopping for the mens’ wedding attire.
3 to 5 Months...
Finalize your guest list.
Decide upon and order your favors.
Select your baker, then choose your cake, groom’s cake, and mints.
Help both mothers coordinate and find their wedding day clothing.
Review your written agreements forms with all of your professionals (photographer, caterer, D.J., site coordinator, transportation, etc.).
2 to 3 Months...
Have engagement portraits taken.
Place your engagement announcement in the newspaper.
Mail out invitations and announcements.
Decide on the mens’ wedding attire.
Arrange and plan your rehearsal dinner.
Purchase your wedding day accessories.
Arrange attendants' parties.
Book a beverage caterer for the reception and make selections.
Prepare accommodations for out-of-town attendants and guests.
Consider a hairdresser and/or makeup artist and book appointments.
Finalize all honeymoon plans.
2 to 4 Weeks...
Final wedding dress fitting.
Final fitting for your wedding attendants.
Obtain marriage license.
Have your attendants' parties.
Purchase your going-away outfit.
Draw a map to direct your guests to the site(s), if necessary.
Create a calendar of events for the wedding day.
Make sure your accessories are in order (rings, pillow, garter, etc.)
1 to 2 Weeks...
Finalize arrangements with the entertainer(s) and provide a list of music you would like played during special events such as first dance, garter removal and bouquet toss.
Pick up your wedding rings and make sure that the engravings are correct and they fit properly.
Contact the guests who have not responded to your invitations.
1 to 7 Days...
Make sure your marriage license is in order.
Prepare seating arrangements, if necessary.
Purchase travelers checks, confirm honeymoon reservations.
Pack your baggage for your honeymoon.
Have your wedding ceremony rehearsal.
Instruct your wedding party on what you would like them to do on the day of the wedding.
Have your rehearsal dinner.
Make sure all wedding attire fits properly.
Give the best man the amount the professionals are to be paid on the day of the wedding.
Inform your caterer of the total guest count.
Confirm out-of-town guests have transportation and sleeping accommodations.
Check with your florist and/or balloonist to make sure they will arrive when scheduled.
Relax, enjoy yourself, and remain calm! Allow at least two hours for dressing.
Allow plenty of time to apply your makeup and style your hair.
If professionals are doing your hair and/or makeup, ask them in advance how much time they will need.
If photographs are to be taken before the ceremony, allow at least one and one-half hours.
Remember to bring the rings and marriage license.
Seat guests as they arrive.
The groom’s parents should be seated about 5 minutes before start time, the mother of the bride is normally seated last.
Take a deep breath, don't worry, and SMILE!
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Historically, the bride and/or her family have assumed the majority of the wedding related expense.
The more modern approach allows for division of costs between the couple and/or both sets of parents.
Following are some of the more traditional guidelines that you can adopt or modify to suit your particular needs.
The itemization also provides a check list of matters that may require attention in your wedding preparations
Usually, the attendants will pay for their attire.
If not, the bride will assume the expense of her attendants and the groom for his.
The BRIDE & The BRIDE’S FAMILY...
Invitations, personal notes and mailing expense.
Cost of the reception.
Cost of the ceremony.
Photographic and videographic expense.
The groom’s wedding ring.
Favors.
Attendants’ bouquets.
Transportation for the wedding party.
Wedding dress, headpiece and accessories.
Lingerie.
Wedding consultant’s fee.
Groom’s gift.
Guest Book.
Accommodations for out-of-town bride’s attendants and guests.
The GROOM & The GROOM’S FAMILY...
Groom’s wedding attire.
Rehearsal dinner.
Marriage license.
Bride’s rings.
Honeymoon.
Wedding gifts for the bride, best man, groomsmen and ushers.
Flowers for the bride’s bouquet, corsages for the mothers and grandmothers.
Alcohol at reception.
Accommodations for out-of-town groomsmen, ushers and guests.
The ATTENDANTS & USHERS...
Wedding gift for the couple.
Bachelor party and/or bacheloret party.
Travel costs.
Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue, and a Silver Sixpence in Her Shoe.
This good luck saying dates back to Victorian times and many brides try to arrange their wedding attire accordingly.
Something Old represents the link with the bride’s family and the past.
Many brides choose to wear a piece of antique family jewelry or a mother’s or grandmother’s wedding gown.
Something New represents good fortune and success in the bride’s new life.
The wedding gown is often chosen as the new item.
Something Borrowed is to remind the bride that friends and family will be there for her when help is needed.
The borrowed object might be something such as a lace handkerchief.
Something Blue is the symbol of faithfulness and loyalty.
Often the blue item is the garter.
A Silver Sixpence in her Shoe is to wish the bride wealth.
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There are a variety of post-ceremony celebration options available to the newlyweds.
The most popular choice is a lunch or dinner reception, the sites for which are virtually unlimited.
It is important to keep in mind that this is your day... plan the reception to satisfy your own style.
Since cost is always a consideration, investigation of the reception packages available in your immediate area is in order.
The charges for an all inclusive sit-down dinner reception in the Marin-Sonoma-Napa region at a suitable restaurant or hotel, or privately catered at a location which does not offer food services, can range from approximately $15 per person to $100 per person, including tax, tips and liquor.
The package price will vary, depending on such factors as day of the week, time of the year, style of the party and the menu selection.
If you are planning a large reception, it is important that you start the planning process early, since there are a limited number of sites that can accommodate such a gathering.
Investigate the available locations and arrange appointments to explore all of the sites that appear intriguing.
Make your reservations well in advance of your wedding date.
If you plan to be married during the wedding high season, it is suggested that you book your location as early as one year in advance of the intended date of the celebration.
A private catering service can provide reception services at a variety of locations, including vineyards, boats, golf courses, hotels or at your home.
You can either locate a reception site which does not provide catering services, and then employ an off-site catering service, or you can first choose an off-site caterer and then seek the caterer’s recommendation with regard to a suitable site.
As with the other wedding related services, do not allow for any surprises on the day of the event.
Make sure that the terms of the package purchased by you are set out in a writing which clearly sets out the menu, the maximum seating, the room decorations, any catered services, number of waiters and bartenders, entertainment, quality of silverware and chinaware, dance facilities, parking, after event janitorial services, etc.
The events and procedures at the reception are matters of your preference and choice.
There are no hard and fast rules.
Usually, following the ceremony a receiving line is set up at the reception site, at which time the bride and groom are allowed an opportunity to meet and speak with their wedding guests.
The newlyweds are commonly joined in the reception line by their parents, the best man and maid of honor, and any special guests who attended the proceedings.
Either before or after the wedding guests are received, the bride and groom should retire to an adjoining room, together with the wedding party, family members and special guests, for the formal wedding portraits.
Plan on 15 minutes to an hour for the formal portraits and approximately 20 to 30 minutes for the reception line introductions.
Typical proceedings thereafter include, in order:
1. Introduction of the new couple by the entertainer or best man;
2. Informal visits by the bride and groom to the guests’ tables, if they are seated, or intermingling with the guests, if they are not;
3. Service of the buffet or sit down lunch or dinner:
a.) If a sit down, the bridal party’s table is situated where it can best be viewed by the guests with the bridal couple in the middle, maid of honor to the groom’s left, best man to the bride’s right, and the other attendants alternating man/woman as space permits. Tapping of a crystal glass announces that the bride and groom should kiss;
b.) If a buffet, the food line should start with the bride, followed by the groom, the maid of honor, best man, attendants, parents and guests.
4. Toast by the best man shortly before the wedding party is served or before the cake cutting
5. Reply by the groom and bride, if they so choose
6. Any other toasts by persons present
7. Service of the meal with background music during meal
8. First dance by bride and groom alone followed by dance of bride with groom’s father and groom with bride’s mother, later joined by wedding party, later joined by guests.
9. Cake cutting
10. More dancing if time allows
11. Bouquet toss followed by garter toss.
12. More dancing if time allows; and
13. Departure of the bride and groom under hail of rose petals or birdseed, rice should not be used.
This good luck saying dates back to Victorian times and many brides try to arrange their wedding attire accordingly.
Something Old represents the link with the bride’s family and the past.
On their wedding day many brides choose to wear a piece of antique family jewelry or a mother’s or grandmother’s wedding gown.
Something New represents good fortune and success in the bride’s new life.
The wedding gown is often chosen as the new item.
Something Borrowed is to remind the bride that friends and family will be there for her when help is needed long after the wedding is over.
The borrowed object might be something such as a lace handkerchief.
Something Blue is the symbol of faithfulness and loyalty.
Often the blue item is the garter.
A Sixpence in her Shoe is to wish the bride and groom wealth.
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A wedding chapel is a place, other than a legal court, and usually also, other than a church, where couples can get legally married.
A church may also be used as a wedding chapel, but churches are usually called that by the marrying couple when the ceremony only involves those contracting matrimony.
Traditional wedding chapels are usually set in small buildings.
Only specially appointed people, such as pastors and people who are licensed to carry out marriage ceremonies, can conduct ceremonies at wedding chapels.
Las Vegas, particularly, is famous for its large number of wedding chapels.
Many of the wedding chapels in Las Vegas feature Elvis Presley impersonators.
Perhaps the most famous venue outside of Las Vegas for a wedding chapel is at Mall of America in Bloomington, Minnesota.
As you visit possible wedding and/or reception sites, keep notes of your observations and the information you obtain.
Ask whether the quoted price is all inclusive, or whether there will be additional charges, such as gratuities, overtime fees, and sales tax. Insist that all details be reduced to writing, including dates, times, prices, and descriptions of services provided. Inquire into the payment requirements.
Most sites will require a down payment to reserve the facility, with the balance due approximately one week prior to the date of the event, when the final guest count is known.
Remember Saturday night is the most expensive time to schedule your wedding reception.
To save money, consider another evening or a weekend afternoon.
Morning or afternoon weddings also call for a lighter menu, so you will be able to save on the catering as well.
The Silver Creek Park Wedding Chapel is pleased to be known in the four state area as the one in the wedding industry that can best assist you in all of your wedding needs, and to provide practical suggestions which, it is hoped, will also help you avoid some of the pitfalls often encountered in the months, days, and hours leading up to your wedding.
As the wedding date approaches, less and less time will be available for wedding preparations.
You want to be in a position to enjoy the days leading up to your wedding, as well as the wedding itself.
This cannot happen unless you start your wedding planning early, the earlier the better.
Most "brides to be" start planning at least 9 to 12 months in advance.
You should book your reception site and your photographer first.
We hope that our wedding guide will make your planning a bit easier and assist you in your wedding preparations.
Remember, weddings DO NOT have to be stressful, it's your day, relax, have a great time and SMILE!
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So you've decided to plan your wedding. You feel slightly overwhelmed at the thought of planning an extravagant event, but are confident you can pull it off.
However, many couples are at a loss when it comes to coordinating such event.
With little or no experience in event planning, a professional wedding consultant is definitely in order.
The decision to hire a consultant is based on several factors.
For many, time is lacking.
Full time jobs do not allow the phone calls and visits required.
Major oversights often occur when time is limited and the ability to stay organized and focused misfires.
If the bride is new to the area, with few friends or family members close by, planning a wedding with little outside help could become a nightmare.
What about an out-of-town wedding, or a bride with a narrow budget?
Whatever the reason, the wisest choice is to hire a professional.
The goal of the wedding consultant is to offer the bride and her family peace of mind by keeping on top of the planning.
A bride and her family should be able to enjoy the occasion, leaving the details and hassles to the consultant.
Here at the Silver Creek Park Wedding Chapel our philosophy is that a bride and groom are deserving of anything and everything they want.
We often refer to them as our Kings and Queens.
They are the ones in charge, and as such, are allowed to create their own rules and regulations.
Good rapport, communication, and a feeling that the bride can rely on her consultant is vital to the teamwork.
A consultant will go the extra mile and resolve disputes that may arise between the bride and family members.
The consultant acts as a couple’s liaison, smoothing over rough spots, that will inevitably present themselves during the period leading up to, and on the wedding day.
Stretching the dollar, while staying within a budget, a consultant will alleviate financial anxieties.
An established consultant will have a wide selection of vendors and valuable connections.
She/he will assist the bride by knowing who to book and when, providing price comparisons, overseeing vendor contracts, avoiding overtime charges, saving on services when guests don’t show, will collectively result in considerable savings to the couple.
A good planner has developed relationships with many vendors, and because of the harmony that has developed, vendors may provide certain perks without charge.
The couple benefits by getting the feeling of a more elaborate wedding.
The extra pair of hands on the wedding day is priceless.
A schedule will be orchestrated and distributed to ensure a smooth-running event.
Details such as coordinating and overseeing vendors, supervising and cuing the wedding party and music, and assisting with seating arrangements are just a few of the duties a consultant will assume.
A bride can rest assured knowing the wedding day will be handled with care, while she relaxes and enjoys her glorious day.
If you want a worry and headache free wedding day, consider hiring a professional wedding consultant.
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Throughout the world, diamond engagement rings are used to symbolize love and the unbreakable bond of marriage.
Searching for an engagement ring, however, can be very stressful, since there are many options to choose from, such as shape, beauty, size, and cost.
Most women have been dreaming of their engagement ring for years.
The following information will make purchasing an engagement ring as easy as it can be.
Start by noting her taste in engagement rings.
Does she favor engagement rings with sapphires or emeralds, or does she seem to be a traditionalist who would choose an engagement ring with a single diamond?
You can also ask her friends and family what type of engagement ring they think she'd like.
Enlist one of her friends to ask her what kind of engagement ring she likes.
If the surprise of the engagement isn't an issue, you can even ask her exactly what she'd like, or even take her shopping at an engagement ring store.
The most common and popular diamond shape for engagement rings is round, or brilliant; Close to 75% of diamonds for engagement rings sold are round!
This is because they tend to sparkle more than other shapes.
Throughout the world, diamonds are used to symbolize love and the unbreakable bond of marriage.
Searching for a diamond, however, can be very stressful, since there are many factors which can affect your decision, such as shape, beauty, size, and cost.
The following information will give you the knowledge you need to make that very special purchase.
Start by noting her taste.
Does she wear gold or silver-toned jewelry?
Does she favor sapphires or emeralds, or does she seem to be a traditionalist who would choose a single diamond?
Watch as she flips through magazines or admires someone else's ring.
This can be a big clue!
You can also be a bit more blatant and ask her friends and family what they think she'd like.
Enlist one of her friends to ask her what kind of ring she likes.
If the surprise of the engagement isn't an issue, you can even ask her exactly what she'd like, or even take her shopping with you.
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Diamond Cut Grade
A diamond’s Cut is judged by the eye of beholder and therefore more subjective than the other four Cs of a diamond.
Your diamond’s Cut is the most important characteristic to consider when choosing your diamond.
A diamond’s Cut should not be confused with the diamond’s shape (round, princess, baguette, etc.).
No matter what diamond shape you choose, each diamond shape has a set of optimum proportions that will reflect and refract the light back to the beholder’s eyes the best.
Often overlooked by diamond buyers and diamond sellers alike are the interrelated proportions and angles of the diamond, also known as the Cut of a diamond. Ironically a diamond’s Cut and polish are what make a diamond sparkle, which is why we buy them in the first place.
A polished diamond’s beauty lies in its complex relationship with light, how much enters the diamond, how much light returns to the observer’s eye and in what form.
It takes the calculations of symmetry, depth percentages and angles to judge a diamond’s cut without looking at the diamond.
When you can compare two diamonds side-by-side there is no need for math skills.
Take two equally lab-graded polished round diamonds, the same carat weight, color, and clarity but with different table-to-depth proportions.
When you place them face up on your closed fingers and slowly rotate your hand, they appear completely different one blindly sparkles more than the other.
The difference between the two is in the Cut and is the result of three interrelated attributes of light.
Brightness is the combination of all white light reflecting from the surface and interior of a diamond.
The flashes of color that can be seen in a diamond are called the fire.
The small areas of light you see flash on and off within a diamond when you slowly move the diamond is scintillation.
Diamonds cut with the ideal proportions for their shape optimize the interaction with light; they will have excellent brilliance, fire, and scintillation.
A diamond’s proportions affect its light performance, which in turn affects its beauty and overall value.
This is why you need to look at the diamonds, not the certificates, when making your final decision.
Have your local independent jewelry appraiser help you judge the cut of your final choice.
The cut and polish of a natural diamond are the only diamond characteristics that are totally dependent on the hand of man.
A natural diamond’s color, clarity and carat size were determined by nature millions of years ago.
A diamond cutter analyzes the rough diamond then determines how to extract the highest carat weight, what shape will produce the most profit out of the rough diamond, and how to avoid inclusions in the finished diamond.
It is possible to take the same rough diamond, and either cut the rough diamond into the most beautiful diamond with ideal proportions despite heavy weight loss.
Or a diamond cutter can shape the rough diamond to its maximum carat weight and monetary value, but lose the brilliance.
These resulting diamonds are often called off-make diamonds.
Diamonds that are cut in any shape other than round brilliant are called "fancy cuts" and require an independent jewelry appraiser’s calculations of the diamond’s proportions in order to judge the cut.
When judging a diamond’s cut remember to actually look at the diamond not the certificate, pick the diamond that has the most fire and brilliance in your eyes.
When in doubt about a diamond consult your independent jewelry appraiser.
While there is a clear reason to prefer the larger, rarer 2 carat diamond to a 1 carat diamond, or a clear preference for a E color over a J color, some people prefer diamonds to be cut in different ways.
Some people like a "spready" diamond, which has a larger than ideal table.
This makes the diamond appear larger without making it weigh more.
Clarity allows you to see the diamond's level of perfection.
The more imperfections, or inclusions, a diamond has, the less sparkle or fire it has.
The fewer imperfections a diamond has, the more light can pass through it, creating the fire that is so desirable.
Clarity is graded under a jeweler's loupe (10x magnification) on the following scale:
FL Flawless...
IF Internally Flawless
VVS1, VVS2 Very Very Slight Inclusion
VS1, VS2 Very Slight Inclusion
SI1 - SI3 Slight Inclusion
I1 - I3 Inclusion
Flawless...
An FL diamond contains no imperfections. These diamonds are extremely rare and very expensive.
Internally Flawless...
An IF diamond has no internal inclusions and very few minor external inclusions.
Very Very Slight Inclusions...
A VVS1 diamond has very small inclusions, mainly externally.
These inclusions are so small that they are hard to find, even with a jeweler's loupe.
A VVS2 diamond has a little larger inclusion than a VVS1, but it is still hard to see under a jeweler's loupe.
Very Slight Inclusions...
A VS1 diamond has small inclusions, usually around the edge of the stone.
It is not easy to see these inclusions under a jeweler's loupe.
A VS2 diamond has small inclusions, usually around the heart of the stone.
These inclusions may be a little difficult to see under a jeweler's loupe.
Slight Inclusions...
An SI1 diamond has few inclusions, usually around the edge of the diamond.
These inclusions are easy to locate under a jeweler's loupe.
An SI2 diamond has inclusions, usually around the table of the diamond.
These inclusions are very easy to locate under a jeweler's loupe.
An SI3 diamond has inclusions, usually under the table of the diamond.
These inclusions are very easy to locate under a jeweler's loupe.
Inclusions...
An I1 diamond has several inclusions inside the diamond that are very easy to locate under a jeweler's loupe and may even be seen by the naked eye.
An I2 diamond has several inclusions, usually in the heart of the stone.
These inclusions are easily seen by the naked eye.
An I3 diamond has several inclusions that are very easily seen by the naked eye.
Carat...
Carat is the unit used to measure the weight of a diamond. It is equal to 200 milligrams or 142 carats to the ounce.
The cost of a diamond increases exponentially as its size or weight increases.
For example, a two-carat diamond costs much more than two one-carat diamonds.
This is because bigger diamonds are harder to find.
Some like rectangular-shaped princess cut diamonds more than the ideal square proportions.
With a diamond’s cut, it is all in the eye of the beholder.
What Size Band?
You don't want to have to go back to the jeweler for a resizing if you can help it...
Ideally the ring will slide right onto her finger and stay there as a symbol of your love!
But how can you find out what size ring she wears, without making her suspicious?
Sneak into her jewelry box and do one of the following:
• Make an impression of one of her rings in a piece of clay or other moldable material.
• Trace the inside of the ring onto a piece of paper.
• Take one (only if she will not notice!) to the jewelry store with you.
If your fiance-to-be is not in the habit of leaving jewelry where you can have easy access to it, ask one of her friends or a member of her family to try to get the information out of her.
It's amazing what girls talk about with one another without the slightest suspicion!
Diamond Shapes & Sizes...
The most common and popular diamond shape is round, or brilliant;
Close to 75% of diamonds sold are round!
This is because they tend to sparkle more than other shapes.
Other shapes are known as "fancy
Clarity Enhanced Diamonds...
Diamond Treatments to Make Clarity Enhanced Diamonds
Diamond clarity is a large factor in calculating the cost of a diamond.
Laboratory treatments can help increase a diamond’s clarity while keeping the price affordable for a diamond engagement ring.
A significant black inclusion in an otherwise suitable diamond may distract from its beauty, lowering the price of the diamond substantially.
With today’s laser technology, we can drill in and dissolve this inclusion and then fill the hole with a clear, diamond–like substance, making the diamond more visually appealing while keeping the total cost per carat affordable.
Many people prefer visibly flawless diamonds (Si1 or better clarity).
Clarity enhanced diamonds are perfect for brides who want a large carat size and high color but are limited by budget.
The term "enhanced diamond" sounds more desirable than "treated diamond," but they mean the same thing.
The processes for diamond clarity enhancements are laser drilling to remove inclusions and fracture filling the holes and tracks left by the laser.
Clarity treated diamonds will cost less and look like natural diamonds of high clarity.
A clarity treated diamond allows a buyer to go for a higher diamond color while not losing carat size or quality of cut.
Compare the price of a GIA graded 2.00ct round brilliant i2 D color to a GIA graded 2.00ct round brilliant Si1 D color.
With clarity enhanced diamonds, you can get a D color diamond with the "look" of the Si1 for the price of an i2.
Remember, once a diamond has been clarity enhanced, it can no longer receive a clarity grade of "vs, Si" from GIA only "clarity enhanced," because the diamond is no longer in its natural state.
Laser Drilling Diamonds to Enhance Diamond Clarity
Without altering the strength of a diamond, a laser drilling diamond treatment removes the inclusions permanently.
A small laser is used to drill into the diamond, tunneling to the inclusions.
The inclusions are then dissolved by chemical solutions.
Laser diamond treatment leaves lines that resemble tiny jet contrails inside the diamond, and are seen under side–view 10x magnification.
When viewed from the top of the diamond, it appears as a tiny white dot. Unfilled cracks in diamonds can also produce color flashes that follow the lines and shape of the treated area.
It becomes very difficult to detect this diamond treatment when the laser drilled areas are fracture filled with a clear diamond–like substance.
Fracture Filling Diamonds to Enhance Diamond Clarity
Fracture filling is a diamond treatment where a clear, glass–like substance is used to fill in small cracks.
This diamond treatment creates an optical illusion that conceals cracks from casual observers.
Some signs of fracture filling can be seen using a 10x jeweler’s loupe, and others require a microscope.
Trapped air bubbles are a sign of fracture filling that can create a cloudy appearance.
Ask your jeweler which treatments were used on the diamond and if your enhanced diamond requires any special care, like avoiding the high heat of sizing a ring, or ultrasonic cleaners.
There is nothing wrong with buying a treated diamond if those treatments are disclosed by the jeweler and you pay an appropriately lower price for the diamond.
GIA Diamond Color Grades...
Remember, diamonds are not all truly colorless, but it is the colorless diamonds that other color shades are judged against.
The diamond color grades below do not apply to fancy colored diamonds- fancy colored diamonds have their own color grading standards
Diamonds with Color Grade D, E, F
D: Absolutely colorless. This is the highest color grade, which is extremely rare.
E: Colorless. Only minute traces of color can be detected by an expert gemologist. This is a very rare diamond.
F: Colorless. Very slight color detected only by the trained eyes of an expert gemologist or independent jewelry appraiser, but still considered a "colorless" grade.
These are very high quality diamonds.
Diamonds with colors of D–E–F are known as the colorless grades
Diamond color grade D is reserved for larger diamonds whose colors can be more accurately graded due to the diamond’s size.
Diamonds that are less than .50 carats usually receive a top color grade of F due to the greater difficulty of precisely grading a small diamond.
Diamonds with colors D, E and F are essentially without color and differ more in diamond clarity and cut proportions.
Diamonds with Color Grade G, H
G–H: Near colorless. Color is only noticeable when compared to diamonds of better color grades; these diamonds are known as the "face up colorless" grades because they appear colorless when mounted in an engagement ring.
This is due to the brilliance or sparkle of the diamond masking this very slight tint when viewed through the table (or top) of the diamond.
Diamonds with a color grade of G–H only show a slight tint of color when turned upside down for proper diamond color grading.
Diamonds with Color Grade I, J, K, L
I–J: Near colorless. Color is slightly detectable.
These diamonds are an excellent value for the money.
An ideal cut diamond of the I–J color range will still face up mostly colorless and can save you a good deal of money over a diamond with a color grade of a higher range.
Diamonds in the K–L range may still be acceptable for diamond jewelry, but will appear to have a warmer color–tone than diamonds of higher grades.
Diamonds in this diamond color range include some very nice diamonds.
Make sure the diamond is properly proportioned or has a "good make."
Ask your local independent jewelry appraiser to help evaluate the diamond’s proportions.
Medium to strong blue fluorescence can help cancel the yellow tint seen in I–K color diamonds, but only when viewed in natural light (such as the sun).
Again, cut is the key to ensuring diamonds with a slight tint of color will still appear bright and beautiful.
Within the lower diamond color grades, cut becomes an even more important C in the four C’s of diamonds.
Diamonds with Color Grade M to Z
The lower diamond colors M through Z have an increasing amount of yellow tint, ranging through the off–color diamonds and ending at the end of the diamond color scale (Z), beyond which diamonds are considered to have a fancy color grade (Z+).
The yellow color in diamonds graded M–Z is especially noticeable when the diamond is set in mounting made of platinum or white gold.
Sometimes jewelers set "off color" yellow diamonds in yellow gold mountings and then try to sell them as uncertified light fancy yellow diamonds.
Be wary of jewelers offering uncertified fancy vivid yellow diamonds.
They could be HPHT color treated diamonds.
Without proper gemological evaluation by a recognized gemological laboratory (GIA, EGL, AGS), these diamonds are just off–color diamonds, not fancy colored diamonds, and should cost less than the white colorless diamonds in the store.
The term "fancy" beside any diamond’s color imparts a higher value and higher price to the diamond.
Do not accept the term fancy for any diamond you purchase unless it is accompanied by an origin of diamond color report and a full diamond grading report from a recognized gemological lab that identifies the diamond’s color as being of natural color origin and truly fancy in color.
When in doubt, take the diamond to your local independent jewelry appraiser for a pre–purchase verification.
What are Conflict & Blood Diamonds?
Accounting for almost half the world’s production of diamonds, Africa is the richest continent when it comes to mining diamonds.
The largest diamond mines are located in the south between the Orange and Vaal rivers, with lesser diamond bearing kimberlite deposits across the west–central part of Africa.
The first diamond deposits found in Africa were alluvial.
Alluvial diamond deposits are controlled by the surrounding topography.
Alluvial diamond deposits are usually located within river gravels that have been transported from their location of origin.
South African diamonds were first stumbled upon in the winter of 1866, when a 15 year old boy found a transparent rock on the sandy south bank of the Orange River.
By 1869 diamonds were found far from the river banks in hard blue rocks later called kimberlite after the diamond mining town of Kimberley.
In the following 15 years South Africa produced more diamonds than India yielded in last 2,000 years of diamond mining.
This abundance of diamonds pouring out of Africa coincided with the exhausting of Brazilian diamond deposits which had once out produced the European diamond demand a century earlier when they were discovered in the 1730s.
The growing American wealth from the Industrial revolution in the United States during the late 1800s kept the diamond demand up with the South African supply.
People have been dying over diamonds for the thousands of years.
From Aladdin’s conquest of Malwah to capture the "Koh i noor" diamond in the 1300s to the present day Taliban trading of Afghan Emeralds and Rubies for guns and bombs, warlords and terrorists alike have used gemstones to further their cause.
Conflict or War diamonds are diamonds that are sold to fund the unlawful and illegal operations of rebel, military and terrorist groups.
They are also called blood diamonds because the citizens that are forced to mine them are terrorized, mutilated or killed by those in control of the local diamond trade.
Blood diamonds have helped fund devastating civil wars in Africa, costing the lives of an estimated 3.7 million.
The countries most affected by conflict diamonds are Sierra Leone, Angola, Liberia and the Democratic Republic of Congo.
Once a rough diamond is brought to market, its country of origin is difficult to trace.
Once cut and polished, a diamond’s source can no longer be identified.
Profits from the trade in blood diamonds, worth billions of dollars, were used by warlords and rebels to buy arms during the devastating civil wars in Angola, the Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC) and Sierra Leone.
Blood diamonds are uncut rough diamonds sold to fund armed conflict and civil war.
In the 1990s, up to 4% of the world’s rough diamonds were being used by rebel groups such as Unita in Angola and the brutal Revolutionary United Front (R.U.F) in Sierra Leone. Rough diamonds are the accepted currency to purchase weapons from arms dealers and become conflict diamonds when they sustain bloody civil wars.
As a result the term "blood diamonds" was born.
International nongovernmental organizations (NGOs) also discovered that rebel groups in the Democratic Republic of Congo and the notorious government of Charles Taylor in Liberia were dealing in blood diamonds.
Hollywood released the film "Blood Diamond" starring Leonardo DiCaprio, Djimon Hounsou and Jennifer Connelly, highlighting the role of blood diamonds in Sierra Leone and recently, rapper Kanye West raised the issue of conflict "blood" diamonds in his music video "Diamonds" (featuring Jay–Z).
In the song, West voices his own inner conflict with blood diamonds:
In his video West takes you into dimly lit diamond mines, where under horrible conditions children are forced to mine for "small bits of primeval carbon" that have no use whatsoever to the average Sierra Leonean child who would rather have peace, food, and shelter.
And if the enslaved child tries to steal a diamond they lose their hands to the R.U.F rebel’s dull machete; when the innocent children try to run away and the rebels will "hobble" their ankles like what happened to Novelist Paul Sheldon in Stephen King’s Misery, crippling the child for life.
This spilt innocence blood is the way the term blood diamond came to be.
Hollywood’s movies like "Lord of War" starring Nicholas Cage, "Blood Diamond" and Kayne West’s song and video about "blood diamonds" help raise the level of international awareness concerning blood diamonds.
While the wars in Angola and Sierra Leone are now over and fighting in the DRC has decreased, the problem of conflict diamonds hasn't gone away.
Diamonds mined in rebel–held areas in Côte d'Ivoire, a West African country in the midst of a chaotic conflict, are reaching the international diamond market.
Conflict diamonds from Liberia are still being smuggled into neighboring countries and exported as part of the legitimate diamond trade.
In 1992, the Revolutionary United Front (R.U.F.), a ruthless rebel group seized the diamond mining capital of Sierra Leone.
The Liberian warlord, Charles Taylor, not only participated in the illicit diamond trade, he acted as mentor, trainer, banker and weapons supplier for the R.U.F., Charles Taylor used R.U.F. rebels to integrate a substantial amount of illicit blood diamonds (valued in the millions) into the global diamond trade, and then used the profits from the conflict diamonds to purchase weapons, which reinforced the R.U.F.’s military strength.
Taylor, who later became President of Liberia, was a formidable force behind R.U.F. rebels’ reign of terror in Sierra Leone.
This is a perfect example of how a blood diamond enables warlords to finance a conflict using the profits from illegal conflict diamond sales
What is being done to stop the sale of blood diamonds?
In 2000, a Non–Governmental Organization’s report showed that the underground trade of illicit blood diamonds was booming. Conflict diamonds were valued between 4 percent and 15 percent of the world’s total diamond market, which generated annual conflict diamond trade revenues of $7.5 billion. The response from the governments, the UN and the diamond industry was swift and decisive. Following international concern at the role played by the illicit conflict diamond trade in fuelling conflict in Sierra Leone, the United Nations Security Council adopted resolution 1306 on 5 July 2000 imposing a ban on the direct or indirect import of rough diamonds from Sierra Leone not controlled by the Government of Sierra Leone through a Certificate of Origin regime. An arms embargo and selective travel ban on non–governmental forces were already in effect under resolution 1171 of 5 June 1998. Compared to the murderous rampage of R.U.F. rebels, U.N. sanctions appear lenient.
10 years after the war began; the United Nations finally intervened in Sierra Leone in June 2001. As a result of their delay, thousands of Sierra Leonean children were killed and mutilated because there was no large scale, international intervention in the early stages of the conflict. The horrific atrocities in Sierra Leone and the long suffering of the people of Angola have heightened the international community's awareness. But U.N. efforts alone won’t stop the senseless killing in Sierra Leone and Angola over illicit blood diamonds. In the distant future NGOs may go so far as to urge the public to boycott African mined diamonds all together.
The publicity of this blood diamond report forced the diamond industry to form the World Diamond Congress to formulate its collective response, and national governments around the world drafted legislation to outlaw and criminalize the any trade in "conflict diamonds". Then with the help of the South African government a trilateral forum between national governments, the diamond industry and NGOs met in Kimberley in May 2000, out of which emerged the Kimberley Process. The World Diamond Congress, in Antwerp, on the 19th July 2000, agreed on a resolution to prevent the illegal trade in blood diamonds for financing armed conflicts and crimes against humanity.. Their efforts resulted in The Kimberley Process Certification Scheme (KPCS), an international effort to rid the world of conflict diamonds. Participation is voluntary but it is supported by countries producing more than 99% of the world’s diamonds. The Kimberly Process is an agreement between national governments, NGOs and the diamond industry to tackle the problem of rough diamond trade fuelling conflicts in countries such as Angola, the Democratic Republic of Congo, Sierra Leone and Côte d’Ivoire.
In January 2003, the Kimberley Process Certification Scheme was launched which requires governments to pass legislation and put systems in place to control the import and export of rough diamonds. The goals of the Kimberley Process are to document and track all rough diamonds entering a participating country, with shippers placing diamond rough in tamper–proof shipping crates and providing enough detailed information about their origins to prove they did not originate in a conflict zone. The Kimberley Process Certification Scheme (KPCS) imposes requirements on participants to certify that shipments of rough diamonds are conflict–free. South African countries with a legitimate diamond trade began a campaign to track the origins of all rough diamonds, attempting to halt the sales of blood diamonds from conflict areas. For South Africa, the world’s fifth–largest diamond producer, the success of KPCS, as an effective solution to the problem of conflict diamonds was critical. The launching of the Kimberly Process at the initiative of African diamond–producing countries was a great start to stopping blood diamonds from getting to market.
Today, the Kimberley Process can claim with confidence that trade in conflict diamonds, or those with questionable provenance, has been reduced to some 0.2% of the total global market. When fully implemented the diamond industry will have the ability to block blood diamonds from ever reaching the global market. The Kimberley Process has evolved into a global certification scheme founded on national legislation, and is effectively eradicating trade in rough diamonds that did not carry a government–issued certificate of origin warranting that the diamond was not mined or traded in an area of conflict. All available data shows an "overwhelming proportion" of rough trade in diamonds was taking place through the KPCS and the scheme was an important in preventing renewed conflict in Sierra Leone and the CongoIn the United States, the KPCS is enforced by the Clean Diamond Trade Act, introduced in 2003, which requires annual reviews of the standards, practices and procedures of any entity in the US that issues KP certificates for the export of rough diamonds. Another report by the U.S. Government Accountability Office found that conflict diamonds could be entering the U.S. because of weak enforcement of the law.
What you can do to Avoid Buying a Conflict Diamond.
As a consumer you can avoid buying a blood diamond in a couple of ways.
First buy a vintage cut diamond, if the diamond was mined and cut over 50 years ago there is no way for it to be a current conflict diamond.
If you choose a modern cut diamond require proof from the retailer that you are buying your diamond from that the diamond is conflict–free.
The proof can be as simple as a guarantee statement on the back of the invoice from the diamond supplier.
The second way to steer clear of blood diamonds is to buy diamonds that are mined from continents that do not have civil wars going on.
Canadian mined diamonds and Australian mined diamonds are conflict free.
The jeweler must be able to answer that their diamonds have passed through the Kimberley process.
Most retailers cannot absolutely guarantee the diamond you purchase is not a conflict diamond.
As consumers, we have the power to change that over time by demanding details about the origin of the diamonds we buy.
Demanding proof that a diamond is conflict–free sends a powerful message to the jewelry world that we will not support an industry or nation that helps fund terror groups.
The only 100% guaranteed way to insure your diamond is conflict-free is to buy a lab created diamond.
Conflict–Free diamonds are yet another way to emphasize that the partnership of marriage is rooted in deeply held conviction.
Diamond wedding rings, a symbol of lasting commitment, need not support appalling violence and human rights abuses.
Canadian mined Diamonds are conflict free...
Canada has made progress in identifying diamonds originating in its mines.
The Voluntary Code of Conduct for Authenticating Canadian Diamond Claims sets the standard for authentication of a diamond that is Canadian.
The Code requires tracking a diamond's progression from the mine to its retail destination.
This includes requirements for proper handling, packing and laser inscribing of all diamonds that are represented as Canadian diamonds.
The Canadian program is voluntary, so not all retailers participate.
So there's no way to absolutely guarantee a diamond is Canadian, but the process definitely helps eliminate doubt..
Australian mined Diamonds are conflict free...
Diamonds that are mined and cut in Australia conflict free diamonds and Australian diamond prices are quite low compared to other countries, European countries especially.
The currency exchange rate artificially makes the price seem high but your buying power is increased so this makes diamonds in Australia well priced.
Australia would have to be the cheapest for diamonds of fancy colors.
Australian Argyle Diamonds are internationally renowned for their unique brilliance and stunning array of colors.
Unearthed in the rugged region to the far north of Western Australia, Argyle Diamonds thrill in shades of exotic pink, sparkling champagne, rich cognac and dazzling white.
The Argyle Diamond Mine is the world's biggest producer of natural fancy color diamonds and contributes approximately one–third of the world's natural diamond supply.
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There are various options for limousines.
The most popular choice is the typical limousine since it is big and open and can accommodate several people as well as your bridal gown.
You can also choose to rent a car that symbolizes your personality as a couple.
There are luxury cars such as Mercedes Benz, sports cars such as a Ferraris, and vintage vehicles such as 1950's Thunderbirds or 1930's Cadillacs.
If your ceremony and reception sites are fairly close together, and if weather permits, you might want to consider a more romantic form of transportation, such as a horse-drawn carriage.
Most limousine companies, book their limousines on a 3-hour minimum basis.
Make sure the limousine company you choose is fully licensed and has liability insurance.
Do not pay the full amount for your Limousine until after the event.
Questions to Ask...
• How many years of experience does your limousine company have?
• How many vehicles does your limousine company have available?
• Does your limousine company have a back-up vehicle in case of an emergency?
• What types of vehicles does your limousine company have available?
• How old are the vehicles of your limousine company?
• How many drivers does your limousine company have?
• Does your limousine company have liability insurance?
• What is the payment/cancellation policy of your limousine company?
Your wedding photography will provide a long-lasting remembrance of one of the happiest days of your life.
The right professional photographer should deliver a complete selection of photographs that tell the full story of your day.
To help select your professional photographer, keep these thoughts in mind:
Hire a professional, don’t trust your wedding memories to a friend with a camera.
Interview as many photographers and review as many wedding albums as you can to find the style you like.
Reserve your photographer as early as possible.
The best photographers tend to be booked months in advance.
Ask the following questions...
What packages are offered?
How many photos are included in each package?
Are the “proofs” yours to keep?
Is there a set number of reprints you must order?
What is the cost for additional time or photos?
How much is the deposit and when is it due?
When is the balance due?
Is there a travel charge?
Are the negatives available to purchase?
If so, do you have to wait a specified time before you can purchase them?
Most importantly, view his or her photographs.
See if you like the style of photography and you seem to interact well with the possible photographer.
Book as early as possible, some popular dates go quickly.
Things To Consider:
Make sure you hire a photographer who specializes in wedding photography.
Your photographer should be experienced in wedding procedures and familiar with your ceremony and reception sites.
This will allow the photographer to anticipate your next move and be in the proper place at the right time to capture all the special moment
The bride and groom's photo album is the traditional way to preserve your special day.
You and your spouse will look at the photos many times during your lifetime.
Therefore, hiring a good photographer is one of the most important tasks in planning your wedding.
Options...
There are a large variety of wedding albums.
They vary in size, color, material, construction and price.
Traditional-style albums frame each individual photo in a mat on the page.
Digitally designed “Montage” albums group the photos in a creatively designed fashion for a more modern look.
Find one that you like and will feel proud of showing to your friends and family.
Some of the most popular manufacturers of wedding albums are Art Leather, Leather Craftsman, Capri and Renaissance.
Keep in mind however, that the quality of the original photographs will determine how the finished album looks so choose your photographer for their skills, not necessarily the manufacturer of the album.
Make sure you are shown the different styles of album available.
Different papers are available to print your photos, pearl and metallic as well as black and white can be chosen.
Ask to see samples.
Things To Consider...
Make sure you hire a photographer who specializes in weddings.
Your photographer should be experienced in wedding procedures and familiar with your ceremony and reception sites.
This will allow him/her to anticipate your next move and be in the proper place at the right time to capture all the special moments.
Personal rapport is extremely important.
The photographer may be an expert, but if you don't feel comfortable or at ease with him or her, your photography will reflect this.
Comfort and compatibility with your photographer can make or break your wedding day and your photographs!
Look at his/her work. See if the photographer captured the excitement and emotion of the bridal couple.
Also, remember that the wedding album should unfold like a story book... the story of your wedding.
Be sure to discuss with your photographer the photos you want so that there is no misunderstanding.
A good wedding photographer will plan the day with you to ensure that all the important moments are covered.
It is acceptable to take a list of important photos to your planning session before the wedding (even one copied from a wedding planning book).
This will keep you on track and ensure that you’ve asked about all the photos that are "must haves."
Ask to look at albums that the photographer has ready to be delivered, or proofs of weddings recently photographed.
Study the photographer’s style.
It’s fine if they tell you that they’re skilled in “photojournalistic” or “candid” photography but, if that’s so, you should see plenty of candid-style shots in their portfolio!
Some photographers are known for formal poses, while others specialize in more candid, creative shots.
Some can do both.
When asked to provide references, photographers will obviously give you names of clients that they know are pleased with their work.
(Why give a name of someone who wasn’t?)
So keep this in mind if you decide to call a former client.
When comparing prices, compare the quantity and size of the photographs in your album and the type of album that each photographer will use.
Ask how many photos will be taken on average at a wedding of your size.
Some photographers do not work with proofs. Rather, they simply supply you with a finished album after the wedding.
Doing this may reduce the cost of your album but will also reduce your selection of photographs.
Many photographers will put your proofs on a DVD for viewing.
This is much less bulky and an easy way to preview all of your wedding photos.
Beware...
Make sure the photographer you interview is the specific person that will photograph your wedding.
Many companies have more than one photographer.
The more professional companies will make sure that you meet with (and view the work of) THE photographer that will photograph your wedding.
This way you can get an idea of his/her style and personality and begin to establish a rapport with YOUR photographer.
Your chosen photographers name should go on your contract!
Also, some churches do not allow photographs to be shot during the ceremony.
Please find out the rules and present them to your photographer so he is knowledgeable about your site.
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Proofs and previews or Proof DVDs are the preliminary prints or digital images from which the bride and groom select photographs for their album and for their parents' albums.
The prints vary from 4x5” to 5x5” and 4x6”.
The DVD allows you to view your photos on a screen in a larger size and more detail.
Things To Consider...
When selecting a package, ask how many photos the photographer will take.
The more images, the wider the selection you will have to choose from.
For a wide selection, the photographer must take at least 3 to 5 times the number of prints that will go into your album.
Ask the photographer how soon after the wedding you will get your proofs.
Request this in writing.
The proofs should be ready by the time you get back from your honeymoon.
Also request to see your proofs before you make the final payment.
Digital Files...
Most digital files are presented as "Jpegs," which is the file type that most labs use to make prints.
Your photographer will probably shoot with a professional digital camera that can create extra-large file sizes, which is important for clarity, if you want very large prints made (such as 24x30 and larger),
Things To Consider: Most photographers will not sell you the digital files up front since they hope to make a profit on selling extra prints after the wedding.
Ask the photographers you interview how long they keep the files and at what point they will become available to you.
A professional photographer should keep a backup copy of the digital files for at least 10 years.
Many photographers will sell you the entire set of digital files after all photos have been ordered by family and friends.
Often the price will vary, depending on the amount spent on re-orders.
Once you own your digital files, make a back-up copy of your disk every 5 or 6 years, as CDs and DVDs can deteriorate after 8 years or so.
Extra Prints...
Extra prints are photographs ordered in addition to the main album or parents' albums.
These are usually purchased as gifts for the bridal party, close friends and family members.
Things To Consider...
It is important to discuss the cost of extra prints with your photographer since prices vary considerably.
Knowing what extra prints will cost ahead of time will help you know if the photographer is truly within your budget.
Think how many extra prints you would like to order and figure this into your budget before selecting a photographer.
Questions to Ask Photographer...
Get their business card with name, address, phone number and email address.
• How many years of experience do you have as a photographer?
• What percentage of your business is dedicated to weddings?
• Approximately how many weddings have you photographed?
• Are you the person who will photograph my wedding?
• Will you bring an assistant with you to my wedding?
• How do you typically dress for weddings?
• Do you have a professional studio?
• What type of equipment do you use?
• Do you bring backup equipment with you to weddings?
• Do you need to visit the ceremony and reception sites prior to the wedding?
• Do you have liability insurance?
• Are you skilled in diffused lighting & soft focus?
• Can you take studio portraits?
• Can you retouch my images?
• Can digital files be purchased? If so, what is the cost?
• What is the cost of the package I am interested in?
• What is your payment policy?
• What is your cancellation policy?
• Do you use paper proofs or DVD proofing?
• How many photographs will I have to choose from?
• When will I get my proofs?
• When will I get my album?
• What is the cost of an engagement portrait? Formal bridal portrait?
• What is the cost of a parent album?
• What is the cost of a 5" x 7" reprint?
• What is the cost of an 8" x 10" reprint?
• What is the cost of an 11" x 14" reprint?
• What is the cost per additional hour of shooting at the wedding?
When interviewing a videographer, ask to see examples of his or her work.
Examine the approach and style of the videographer as well as the sound quality and picture clarity.
Of utmost importance is the quality of the editing.
Keep these thoughts in mind:
What video format is offered?
The formats in order of preference (lowest quality to highest) are VHS, 8mm, Hi8, and SVHS.
You should insist that the video be shot at the highest available speed.
Does the artist provide lighting, or does he rely on available light?
What are the charges for extra time or extra tape?
Will the videographer have available back-up equipment in the event difficulties are encountered?
Can a photographic / videographic collage be provided?
Is a choice of background music, where appropriate, available?
Are title screens provided?
How many cameras will be covering the events?
Has the videographer had experience in conducting interviews?
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Rose - Love
White Daisy - Purity
Gardenia - Joy
Orchard - Beauty
Carnation - Distinction
Blue Violet - Constancy
Forget-me-not - True Love
Red Chrysanthemum - Sharing
Lily of the Valley - Happiness
White Lilac - Youthful Innocence
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As you visit possible wedding and/or reception sites, keep notes of your observations and the information you obtain.
Ask whether the quoted price is all inclusive, or whether there will be additional charges, such as gratuities, overtime fees, and sales tax.
Insist that all details be reduced to writing, including dates, times, prices, and descriptions of services provided.
Inquire into the payment requirements.
Most sites will require a down payment to reserve the facility, with the balance due approximately one week prior to the date of the event, when the final guest count is known.
Remember Saturday night is the most expensive time to schedule your wedding reception.
To save money, consider another evening or a weekend afternoon.
Morning or afternoon weddings also call for a lighter menu, so you will be able to save on the catering as well.
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More than on any other day in your life, your wedding day is the day that you want to look beautiful.
Whether or not you usually wear make-up, there are good reasons for wearing it on your wedding day.
Properly applied make-up will greatly enhance your appearance, particularly in the many photographs which will be taken in the course of the day.
On the other hand, too much makeup, the wrong makeup, or improperly applied makeup can have the opposite effect
A heavy eyeliner or heavy false eyelashes will cast unwanted shadows over your eyes and cheeks.
No make-up may result in a washed out or anemic appearance.
Ideally, your make-up should enhance your features without its presence being apparent.
Some brides have a professional make-up artist do the entire bridal party.
If you decide to do your own make-up, the best advice is prac tice, practice, practice, until you achieve the look you want.
It is not necessary to buy expensive products.
Use your regular make-up or consult a professional salesperson to find what products best suit your skin and features, and how to apply them.
Choose a make-up that is close to your skin tone.
If the foundation is too dark, it will create a mask-like effect.
Use a soft brown pencil for liner on the eyes.
Apply brown powder using a sponge tipped applicator on top of the pencil to set the liner and avoid smearing.
Pencil in the shape of your eyebrows lightly with a soft, gentle touch.
Use a lipliner pencil and draw the natural lipline, which will help prevent lipstick from running.
Blend with a cotton swab and cover with a pastel lipstick.
Add a touch of lip gloss to the center of your lower lip.
Apply foundation smoothly to the hairline.
Cover your face and neck with a fine powder and blend it well with a brush.
Apply a touch of blush high on your cheekbones and blend carefully.
Apply concealer with a sponge to cover any blemishes and to hide circles under your eyes.
The music sets the tone for your wedding.
Two sets of performers may be required, one for the ceremony and another for the reception.
You may, for example, choose a live band, disk jockey, solo singer, piano/organ, harpist or combination of two or more.
Wedding bands usually have audition nights at which you can hear them in person.
If not, request an audio or videotape.
Bridal shows often showcase bands.
Your musician’s personality can add much to the marriage ceremony and can make or break your reception.
So it’s important that you select your entertainment carefully.
Selecting a wedding band is one of the most important aspects of your wedding.
Some people even think that selecting a wedding band is more important than selecting a wedding photographer.
Make sure you meet and get to know your wedding band and that you get a chance to listen to their music and watch them perform.
Make sure they can play the variety of music that you like.
You can hire the best wedding band in, but if your wedding band doesn’t play the style of music you like, you will not be happy with your wedding band.
You should make sure that your wedding band brings backup equipment to the wedding.
You don’t want to take any risks during the wedding.
Make sure your wedding band specializes in weddings, as weddings are very specialized events.
If you hire an experienced wedding band, you can rest assured that you and your family will enjoy your wedding.
Questions To Ask The Prospective Band...
• How many years of professional experience does your wedding band has?
• What percentage of your Wedding band is dedicated to weddings?
• What instrument(s) does your wedding band play?
• What type of music does your wedding band specialize in?
• How would your wedding band dress for your wedding?
• Does your wedding band have liability insurance?
• What is the payment/cancellation policy of your wedding band?
• Can your wedding band act as a master of ceremony?
Music is one of the most important elements for a successful wedding, it sets the tone for either an elegant and romantic affair, or a lavish, wild party.
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Prelude...
Four Seasons: Winter, Largo... Vivaldi - Four Seasons
Romance No. 2... Beethoven - Adagios
Pastoral Suite... Beethoven - Your Favourite Classics
Symphony No. 28... Mozart - Best of Mozart
Claire de Lune... Debussy - Romantic Piano Favourites
Fur Elise... Beethoven - Classic Romantic Moments
Adagio for Strings... Barber
Ave Verum Corpus... Mozart
The Gift... Jim Brickman - The Gift
All I Ask of You... Sarah Brightman - Andrew Lloyd Webber Collection
Trumpet Voluntary... Clarke - Wedding Music
Sunrise, Sunset... Various - All Occasions Album
Processional
Bridal Chorus... Wagner - All Occasions Album
Canon in D... Pachelbel - 25 Wedding Favorites
Royal Fireworks Music... Handel - 25 Wedding Favorites
Air, Water Music... Handel - 25 Wedding Favorites
Trumpet Voluntary... Clarke - 25 Wedding Favorites
To a Wild Rose... MacDowell - Celtic Harp
Gymnopedie, No. 1... Satie - Classic Romantic Moments
Pathetique Sonata... Beethoven - Romantic Moods
Ceremony
Morning Has Broken... Judy Collins - Send in the Clowns
All People on Earth do Dwell... Various - God is Faithful
Beautiful in My Eyes... Joshua Kadison - Painted Desert Serenade
Because We Are in Love... Carpenters - Made in America
The Wedding Song (There is Love)... Petula Clark - These Are My Songs
Amazing Grace... Mahalia Jackson - For Collector's Only
The Wedding Song... Lennon Sisters - 22 Songs of Faith & Inspiration
You Are the One... Debbie Friedman - It's You
Recessional
Wedding March... Mendelssohn - 25 Wedding Favorites
Spring, Four Seasons... Vivaldi - 25 Wedding Favorites
Hornpipe, Water Music... Handel - 25 Wedding Favorites
Toccata... Widor - 25 Wedding Favorites
Hallelujah Chorus... Handel - Messiah Choruses
Ode to Joy... Beethoven - Vol. 2, Joyce's Wedding Favorites
Interlude/ Postlude
Jesus, Joy of Man's Desiring... Bach - 25 Wedding Favorites
Ave Maria... Schubert - Adeste Fideles
Musetta's Waltz.... Puccini - 25 All Time Italian Favorites
Greensleeves... Julie Andrews - Greatest Christmas Songs
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First Dances
Always... Atlantic Starr - Ultimate Collection
Amazed... Lonestar - Lonely Grill
Annie's Song... John Denver - Reflections
(Everything I Do) I Do it For You... Bryan Adams - So Far, So Good
Unexpected Song... Bernadette Peters- Mr. Producer
A Whole New World... Regina Belle & Peabo Bryson- The Best of Regina Belle
After All... Cher - Heart of Stone
All My Life... K-Ci and JoJo - Love Always
As Time Goes By... Tony Bennett - Classic Tony Bennett 2
At Last... Etta James - Her Best
Beautiful... Gordon Lightfoot - Gord's Gold Greatest Hits
Because You Loved Me... Celine Dion - All the Way: A Decade of Song
Family Dances
A Smile Like Yours... Natalie Cole - Vol. 1, Natalie Cole's Greatest Hits
All I Have... Beth Neilsen Chapman - Greatest Hits
Butterfly Kisses... Bob Carlisle - Butterfly Kisses
Can You Feel the Love Tonight... Elton John - Love Songs
Child of Mine... Carole King - Writer
Daddy's Girl... Peter Cetera - Solitude/Solitaire
Daddy's Hands... Holly Dunn - Milestones: Greatest Hits
My Father's Eyes... Amy Grant - My Father's Eyes
Hero... Mariah Carey - #1's
In My Life... John Lennon - Imagine
Isn't She Lovely... Stevie Wonder - A Smile Like Yours
Lullaby... (Goodnight, My Angel) - Greatest Hits, Vol. 3 All the Way:
Toasts
All the Man That I Need... Whitney Houston - Greatest Hits
Doin' It All For My Baby... Huey Lewis & The News - Best Of
Enjoy it!... Maurice Chevalier - Classic Disney Vol. 4
Everything is Beautiful... Foster & Allen - By Request
Friends... Elton John - Rare Masters
I Pledge My Love... Peaches & Herb - Wedding Songs
Shower the People... James Taylor - Greatest Hits Vol. 1
That's What Friends Are For... Dionne Warwick - Greatest Hits (1979-90)
These Are the Days... 10,000 Maniacs - MTV Unplugged
Sacred Emotion... Donny Osmond - Greatest Hits
Greatest Love of All... Whitney Houston - Whitney Houston
Your Song... Elton John - Elton John
Bouquet Toss
American Woman... Lenny Kravitz - Austin Powers: The Spy Who Shagged Me
Beautiful Bouquet... The Cox Family - Beyond the City
Bold Soul Sister... Ike & Tina Turner - Bold Soul Sister
Celebration... Kool & The Gang - Celebrate
Girls Just Want to Have Fun... Cyndi Lauper - She's So Unusual
I Am Woman... Helen Reddy - The Essential Helen Reddy Collection
Jump (For My Love)... Pointer Sisters - Billboard's Top Hits 1984
Man, I Feel Like a Woman... Shania Twain - Come on Over
Sisters Are Doin' It For Themselves... The Eurythmics - Greatest Hits
And I Love You So... Don McLean - Best Of
L-O-V-E... Al Green - Deep Shade of Green
The Way He Makes Me Feel... Barbra Streisand - Yentl
Garter Removal
Another One Bites the Dust... Queen - Greatest Hits
Heaven Must Be Missing An Angel... Tavares - Charlie's Angel Soundtrack
Heaven... Bryan Adams - Reckless
Fever... Peggy Lee - All Time Greatest Hits
Can I Steal a Little Love... Frank Sinatra - Capitol Collector's Series
If I Ever Fall in Love... Shai - If I Ever Fall in Love
Kiss... Prince - The Hits, 2
Love is Alive... Gary Wright - Dream Weaver
Let's Get it On... Marvin Gaye - Anthology
Makin' Whoopee... Dr. John - Sleepless in Seattle
Oh Yeah... Yello - Essential
Oh, Pretty Woman... Roy Orbison - Superhits
Cake Cutting
All I Do is Dream of You... Dean Martin - The Capitol Years
How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved By You)... James Taylor - Greatest Hits
Can't Smile Without You... Carpenters - A Kind of Hush
I Got You Babe... Sonny and Cher - Greatest Hits
Sugar, Sugar... Archies - Very Best of the Archies
Love and Marriage... Frank Sinatra - The Very Good Years
Recipe for Love... Harry Connick, Jr. - We Are In Love
If You Say My Eyes Are Beautiful... Whitney Houston & Jermaine Jackson - Greatest Hits
Completely... Michael Bolton - One Thing
Look Heart, No Hands... Randy Travis - Greatest Hits, Vol. 2
Somewhere Out There... Linda Ronstadt & James Ingram - American Tail
I Love You Much Too Much... Andrews Sisters - Rarities
Money Dance
Pennies From Heaven... Billie Holiday - 16 Most Requested Songs
Three Coins in a Fountain... Four Aces - Four Aces' Greatest Hits
Got a Penny... Nat King Cole - 1941-1943
The Magic Penny... Cathy Fink - When the Rain Comes Down
Betcha Nickel... Ella Fitzgerald - Ken Burns Jazz: Ella Fitzgerald
For Love of Money... O'Jay - Old School Funk II
I Need Some Money... John Lee Hooker - That's My Story
Money (That's What I Want)... Beatles - With the Beatles
Money Blues... Louis Armstrong - St. Louis Blues
Money Honey... Elvis Presley - Elvis '56
She Works Hard For Her Money... Donna Summer - Greatest Hits
Penny For Your Thoughts... Tavares - Check It Out
Ethnic Dances
La Danza: Tarantella... Various - Italia Mia Eros De Italia
Hava Nagila... Danny Albert - Music for Jewish Weddings
Bashana... Shlomit - Songs in Hebrew
Ose Shalom... David and The High Spirits - To Life
Raisins and Almonds... Mandy Patinkin - Mamaloshen
Tzena Tzena... The Barry Sisters - Their Great Yiddish Hits
To Life... Original Broadway Cast - Fiddler on the Roof
Sabbath Prayer... Uri Caine - Knitting on the Roof
O Sole Mio... Placido Domingo - Canciones de Amor
Neapolitan Song... Bruno Bertone Orchestra - Musica From Italy
Haste to the Wedding... Maggie Sansone - Traditions
When Irish Eyes Are Smiling... Bing Crosby - Top 'O the Morning
Last Dance
God Must Have Spent A Little More Time On You... Alabama/N Sync - Twentieth Century
All Through the Night - Cyndi Lauper... Twelve Deadly Cyns
Dreaming My Dreams With You... Collin Raye - Love Songs
One In a Million You... Larry Graham - Best of Larry Graham
All I Ever Need is You... Ray Charles - Complete Country & Western Recordings
Just to See Her... Smokey Robinson - Ultimate Collection
Dedicated to the One I Love... Mamas & The Papas - Greatest Hits
Dream Weaver... Gary Wright - Dream Weaver
I've Had The Time of My Life... Bill Medley & Jennifer Warren - Dirty Dancing
You're Still the One... Shania Twain - Come On Over
Save the Best For Last... Vanessa Williams - Greatest Hits
Goodnight, Sweetheart... Flamingos - Best of Flamingos
Register for your honeymoon instead of registering for wedding gifts.
Many stores offer great options where you can register for cash contributions towards your honeymoon in lieu of registering for wedding gifts.
You can register for cash contributions towards all or any aspect of your honeymoon; i.e., airfare, rental car, hotel, meals, activities, spa treatments, etc.
Unlike traditional Gift Registries, you can split each aspect of your honeymoon into segments and assign a value to each segment.
Guests can purchase one or more segments towards any aspect of your honeymoon as your wedding gifts.
Guests can also send you a personal message and print a wedding gift receipt that they can insert in a card that can be given to you on or before your wedding day.
When your honeymoon registry expires (a week before your wedding date), Wedding Solutions.com will mail you a check for the amount of wedding gifts contributed by your guests.
More and more brides are choosing this option as wedding gifts.
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Regardless of the type of wedding you’re planning, your age or your budget, your friends and family want to give you a wedding gift.
They want to give you something you need and want.
You know yourself how good it feels to give someone a gift they really like.
Everyone likes to believe their gift is special and won’t be returned after the wedding.
Registration, therefore, is a service for your family and friends as well as for yourselves.
Developing a personalized bridal registry list will help you get started on the creation of your new life together.
After the stress and rushing around of the wedding, reception, and honeymoon, it’s great to come home to the things that will make you comfortable and relaxed.
You’ll have the necessities for your new home.
Today’s bridal registries are putting a new spin on tradition.
Sure you may register for china, silver, and crystal, but, you will also register for sheets, towels, cookware, bakeware, cutlery, and appliances.
The things you need for everyday living.
Your friends will want to know your favorite colors, the size of your bed, what pieces of cookware you need, and if you already have a toaster.
If you register, you’ll get one toaster, not five!
An experienced, professional bridal registry consultant has the product knowledge to help you with your selections. It can be a little overwhelming when three are so many decisions, so many details, and so little time to take care of everything. It’s important that you have confidence in your registry consultant.
Register about 5 to 8 months before the wedding.
This assures that your list will be in place before any parties or showers.
Most companies will maintain your registry for at least one year after your wedding date
When choosing a company for your wish list there are several things to consider.
First is customer service.
You’ll want your guests to be treated well, and you’ll want a positive experience while doing your exchange after the wedding.
Next is accessibly.
Will it be easy for your guests to obtain your list and the items on it?
Selection, quality, and prices are important too.
Make an appointment to do your registry.
The Consultant should set aside an hour to an hour and a half for you.
It’s best to go in a day or two before your appointment to look around.
That way you’ll have an idea of the things you want on your list, and wont be overwhelmed by all of the questions.
The consultant will answer any remaining questions at the time of your appointment.
That’s his or her job.
Bridal registry is a complementary service.
Your time with a registry consult and the servicing of your list is free.
It will be the easiest part of your wedding plans, and the most profitable.
Remember, choose someone you have confidence in . . . and have fun developing your wish list.
Your guests will appreciate the time you spend making their gift selection so easy and convenient.
Weddings are costly, and everyone is interested in saving money if possible.
Floral designs created from fresh and silk flowers may help you stay within your budget.
Choose wedding flowers that either can serve more than one function or can be kept as a remembrance of the occasion.
Standing baskets filled with sprays of fresh or silk flowers that decorate the ceremony can later be moved to the reception site, where they look elegant placed behind the head table or at the entrance to the room.
An arch is useful at the site of the ceremony, in a garden wedding, or the bride may wish to make her entrance under a flower covered arch before being escorted down the aisle.
Later, this same arch could showcase the cake table or the guest book table.
A swag, placed at the top of such an arch, made of silk or dried materials, can be retained by the newlyweds, evoking fond memories of the wedding day.
The head table can be highlighted by using a swag or floral centerpiece made of permanent botanicals.
This later becomes a lovely addition to a first home.
Perfect for a flower girl may be a silk headwreath made of ribbon, tulle and tiny flowers, which can be enjoyed by the wearer after the wedding as well as on the special day itself.
This wreath is sometimes hung on a wall with the brim of a straw hat, to be worn or displayed in the home.
These are just a few ideas for maximizing your floral budget.
The most important thing to remember is that careful planning is essential if you hope to get the most for your money, without compromising the beautiful, romantic setting that flowers can add to your wedding day.
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Your attendants can add a nice touch to a wedding.
They usually are close relatives or good friends of the couple.
The ring bearer and the flower girls usually walk before the bride and her escort but behind the rest of the bridal party.
Flower girls usually lay a bed of rose petals for the bride to walk on.
Trainbearers walk in pairs following the bride and her escort, holding the bride’s train.
The purchase of your wedding jewelry should be an exciting part of your engagement.
Unfortunately, in today’s marketplace jewelry shopping can oftentimes be a confusing experience.
Since there is so much competition in the field, you can expect to receive conflicting information, most of it intended to sell you rather than assist you.
Here are some basic tips that can help you cut through the technical jargon and sales tactics..
WHERE TO SHOP...
Your first stop should be a locally owned jewelry store which has established a good reputation over a number of years.
It’s also a good idea to look for a store with an in-house jeweler so any sizing or custom work can be performed on the premises.
A jeweler that’s rooted in the community has a vested interest in making you a satisfied customer because they typically advertise by "word of mouth."
DIAMONDS...
Most consumers have difficulty choosing a wedding ring because of the many variables involved in diamond quality and value.
Diamond grading is broken down into “Four C’s” carat, clarity, color and cut.
All of these add up to a "Fifth C," cost.
Ask how the "Four C’s" apply to the ring or rings that you are considering.
AFTER THE DECISION...
Before reaching a final decision on your rings, there are several other consideration that you should take into account.
How long will it take to have the ring sized?
If the ring is being ordered from an outside jeweler or manufacturer, how much time will be required for delivery and size adjustments, if necessary?
Allowance of sufficient time in advance of your wedding date is essential.
THE BOTTOM LINE...
Ask questions?
Good salespeople like to share their knowledge and experience.
Visit a number of jewelry outlets.
Take good notes and compare them as you shop.
Don’t make snap decisions.
Think about it overnight.
Are the financing terms competitive?
Trust yourself and your own eye.
If something doesn’t look right it probably isn’t.
Make the choice that is right for you, not what someone else wants to sell you.
Don’t rush.
Enjoy this special occasion.
There are no hard and fast rules so far as wedding attire is concerned.
The outfitting of your wedding should be determined by your personal preferences, taking into consideration your budget.
Formal Wedding Attire...
A formal wedding can be had at any time of the day, but is particularly appropriate if the ceremony and reception are planned for the evening.
The bride is ordinarily attired in a full-length gown and the groom in black or white tuxedo.
The bridesmaids’ dresses and the groomsmens’ suits should complement the attire worn by the bride and groom.
Semiformal Wedding Attire...
A semiformal wedding is, as the title implies, less traditional than a formal ceremony.
The bride’s gown may be of any length desired.
The groom and his groomsmen may wear suits or black tuxedos.
The formality of the attire worn by the bridesmaids and groomsmen may be reduced accordingly.
Informal Wedding Attire...
An informal wedding offers maximum flexibility.
The bride ordinarily will wear either a traditional gown or a tailored suit.
A suit is appropriate for the groom.
In the final analysis, the decision regarding attire is yours.
Do not feel bound to follow the rules set down by others. It is, after all, your wedding day.
You have thought about this day for your entire life, and it’s finally about to happen.
Finding the perfect wedding gown can be both challenging and pleasurable.
Wedding gowns come in many styles, fabrics and price ranges.
Gowns vary from simple, informal types to elaborate puffy productions with intricate beading and long trains.
Below are a few thoughts to keep in mind while searching for your perfect gown.
Shopping...
Searching out the ideal wedding gown can be a demanding task, because there is so much to choose from.
It’s best to have some idea what you are looking for before you begin to shop.
Wedding magazines are a good source of ideas
Preference...
Wedding gowns are very personal and should be chosen based on your individual style preference, the type of wedding you plan to have, the place you are being married and your budget.
Almost anything is acceptable... so remember, this is YOUR day.
Do it YOUR way...
Where To Look?
There are many sources available for bridal gowns: bridal salons, discount warehouses and outlets, resale or consignment shops, and custom designers.
Call these merchants in your area and find out what they have to offer.
Many of the boutique bridal shops require an appointment or have limited hours.
Many, but not all, bridal stores have knowledgeable sales people, who can assist in selecting the right gown for you.
If your choice is a new gown, allow at least four months for fittings, manufacture and delivery.
Allow extra time to guard against the possibility of something going wrong... for example, delay in delivery of the gown, delivery of the wrong gown, or delivery of a damaged gown, which will require repair.
Reputable Source...
It is not difficult to imagine the chaos that can result if, on the appointed day for delivery of your gown, you discover that the person or firm with whom you are dealing is no longer in business.
The best protection is afforded by dealing with a firm which has long been established in the community, a store with national affiliation, or a shop which has qualified as an "authorized dealer" or representative for a nationally recognized product line.
The reliability of the merchant with whom you are dealing is particularly important in the field of specially manufactured wedding gowns, because a non refundable deposit is almost always required at the time the gown is ordered.
A quality firm will also be able to assist you if problems are encountered in the manufacture or delivery process.
Ask Questions...
Do not allow yourself to be intimidated by the salesperson who is assisting you.
Feel free to ask questions about anything you are unsure of.
Be sure to satisfy yourself that there are no additional or hidden costs, such as for steaming or final alterations.
Put It In Writing...
Insist that all of the essential terms of your agreement with the salesperson be in writing.
Do not proceed on the basis of an oral agreement or understanding.
Unfortunately, should you and the salesperson later disagree on the terms of your agreement, the salesperson will have a distinct advantage in the negotiation process, since he or she holds your gown and, in all likelihood, you will not have sufficient time to make alternative arrangements, such as purchasing a gown from another shop.
When Choosing Your Gown...
There are thousands of gown fashions to choose from.
Brides can choose a gown with traditional embellishments like the bell-shape skirt with lace and a train, or a modern form-fitting gown made of satin and decorated with sequins.
Whatever the bride may decide, she will eventually have to visit some type of wedding gown dealer.
Selecting Your Gown...
When you visit the salon of your choice, make sure that you have a clear vision of your wedding's theme.
Do not hesitate to let the salon know what you have planned for a budget.
Bring magazine clippings of gowns you like, and see if they have those styles or something similar.
Keep in mind that with most bridal salons, you get some consultation for free.
Take advantage of the advice you receive...
The consultant will be able to offer suggestions on fit and style based on your age and body type.
A gown may look wonderful in a magazine (and most do), but it may not look good on you.
Your consultant will help you find the right gown at the right price.
You should visit a bridal salon even if you do not plan on purchasing your gown through one.
The advice you receive will more than pay for your time.
The Costs...
Don't purchase a gown that is out of your price range.
Bridal gowns can range in price from a few hundred to a few thousand dollars.
Take some time to think about your selection.
It may help to sleep on the idea and make a commitment on a different day.
Remember that bridal gowns come with many unforeseen expenses.
Don't spend all of your allotted money on the gown itself.
Save a little for alterations and accessories.
Plan to spend approximately 5.5% of your total wedding budget on your gown and accessories.
Get Fitted For Your Gown...
When you go to get fitted for your gown, make sure that you bring your mother or maid of honor with you.
If neither of these people can be there, take a friend whose opinion you trust.
If nothing else, this friend can provide some moral support if you are in doubt.
You should plan on at least six months to decide on and fit your gown.
It will take at least three months for your order to be placed and your gown to be made by the manufacturer.
Then you can plan on three fittings.
The first when your gown arrives.
The second to correct any mistakes, and the third to verify that everything is perfect.
You should expect your gown to be perfect...
After all, you will only wear this gown once.
If you do not have six months, relax.
You can still get everything done in time.
It will just cost a little more to rush your order.
Your final fitting should take place a few weeks before your wedding.
The last thing you should worry about on your wedding day is whether or not your gown fits.
Make sure your gown is ready early...
Your salon should hold your gown until the week before your wedding.
They are better equipped to store your gown than you will be, and proper storage is essential to prevent your gown from wrinkling.
It would be a good idea to bring your maid of honor to your fittings.
She will be able to learn her responsibilities for the wedding day.
Sometimes, small emergencies come up right before the wedding is about to begin.
Your maid of honor should know your gown, and she should also know how to perform small alterations in a pinch.
If your mother would handle this situation better than your maid of honor, you might want her at the fittings as well.
Your wedding day is going to be very hectic.
Allow yourself at least two hours to get ready before your wedding is scheduled to begin.
If you are planning to have photographs taken before your ceremony, start getting ready two hours before your session is scheduled to begin.
These last few hours are stressful enough, don't add to the stress by running late.
Take your time when getting ready, and enjoy the company of those around you.
Bring an emergency kit.
This kit should have sewing supplies, extra makeup, extra hose, and tissues.
You should also bring a pair of comfortable shoes such as flats with you.
During the wait before the wedding, you will not want to be running around in heels.
Your feet may never forgive you.
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This is your special day.
Make sure your gown makes you feel like a princess when you put it on.
When you look good, you feel good.
Wedding gowns tend to run small.
You will probably need a gown that is a size or two larger than your normal size.
When you go for your fittings, consider wearing a strapless bra.
This will help you get a better feeling of how each gown would look during your wedding.
Take at least one day to decide on the gown that you would like to purchase.
This will help ensure that you make a rational decision.
Use a credit card to pay for your gown.
Most cards offer some kind of buyer protection services.
So if something goes wrong, you may be able to recover some of your losses.
Expect to give an initial down deposit of up to 50 percent of the cost of the gown.
Be sure to get a written contract with specific information like gown size, color, style, etc.
Avoid cash-only brokers.
They could turn out to be scam artists.
This is a simple guide to making your wedding speech.
It answers some of the most frequently asked questions, and gives you some tips on making it as easy as it can be.
HOW DO I STOP MY KNEES FROM SHAKING?
I won't tell you that you won't get nervous, because the plain fact is, you probably will.
But you should know this: most people do. In fact, if there's no adrenalin, it probably won't be much of a speech.
The important thing is to keep it in perspective.
Just use these tips, and you'll find that there's nothing to worry about.
For starters, remember that you're not taking an exam, you're talking to your friends.
Your friends and family are the warmest audience you'll ever have.
They've come to your wedding, and they're on your side.
Think of it as a bigger dinner party than usual... and it's your turn to tell a story.
Just relax and remember how comfortable you would be back at the dinner party... then go ahead and tell your story.
Here's another tip.
It's the waiting that's more likely to make you nervous.
Once you're on your feet, and you've started talking, as long as you know what you're going to say, it's suddenly a whole lot more fun.
So remind yourself of that as you're sitting and waiting, and make it easier by repeating your first line to yourself.
That way when you get to your feet, and the room goes silent, you won't suddenly freeze. Instead, you'll just say that line you've been repeating to yourself over and over.
And with that out of the way, you'll find the rest just follows.
WHAT ARE ALL THE RULES I NEED TO KNOW?
The usual routine is this:
A welcome by the master of ceremonies, who introduces a friend of the family or close friend of the couple, who makes a speech leading up to a toast to the bride and groom, followed by a speech in reply by the groom, or bride, or both, who thank everyone who has helped organise the wedding, usually ending with a toast to the bridesmaids, who have toasts made on their behalf by the best man who then makes a toast to the hosts... who might or might not be the bride's mother or father or both, who reply.
But you don't have to do any of that.
It's all a question of saying the things that matter to you, and having the people who matter to you involved.
Choose the people who you would like to say something, decide who should be recognised and thanked, and then work out an order that suits you best.
It's always a good idea to have a master of ceremonies, because they can keep it all in order, and you really should have someone to introduce all the speakers.
But apart from that, choose what seems right for you.
One of the ways you can make it particularly interesting is to make some unconventional toasts.
For example, each speaker could choose a year that they think is particularly appropriate to toast.
(For example "1976, because that was the year that...")
By taking this approach, you give people the chance to think about things in an original way, and have more of a chance of steering away from making speeches that recite all the usual platitudes.
HOW SHOULD I PREPARE?
Write a speech to practice as soon as you can.
That'll give you more time to hear how it sounds, and adjust it so it sounds like your usual style of speaking rather than your usual style of writing.
And, more importantly, it'll make you so familiar with the speech that by the time you stand up, you'll know just what you want to say.
Once you have it written, practice whenever you can - in the car, in the shower.
The more you prepare, the more confident you'll be.
WHEN IS THE BEST TIME FOR SPEECHES?
You can have the speeches at any stage you like, but generally, they tend do be most successful before you eat, and after people have had some time to mix and drink.
WHAT ELSE DO I NEED TO KNOW?
Be yourself, and speak your mind.
This is a chance to say some things that mean a lot to you about people you care about, in front of all your friends and family.
That's not a chance people get very often, so make the most of it.
Your honeymoon is the time to celebrate your new life together as a married couple.
It should be the vacation of a lifetime.
This does not necessarily mean spending your life’s earnings on your honeymoon, but your honeymoon should reflect the special interests you share as a couple.
The honeymoon is traditionally the groom’s responsibility.
However, the planning of your honeymoon should be a joint decision as to where to go, how long to stay, and how much money to spend.
Start planning your honeymoon months before the wedding.
Many locations that are popular with honeymooners tend to book fairly quickly, so the earlier you plan your honeymoon, the better values you’ll usually find.
There are many choices to make and many plans to be made but most of them seem to fall into place once you've made the toughest decision... where to go on your honeymoon.
Your honeymoon is the time to celebrate your new life together as a married couple.
It should be the vacation of a lifetime.
This does not necessarily mean spending your life's earnings, but the vacation should reflect the special interests you share as a couple.
The honeymoon is traditionally the groom’s responsibility.
However, the planning of your honeymoon should be a joint decision as to where to go, how long to stay, and how much money to spend.
Start planning your honeymoon months before the wedding. Many locations that are popular with honeymooners tend to book fairly quickly, so the earlier you plan your trip, the better values you'll usually find.
There are many choices to make and many plans to be made but most of them seem to fall into place once you've made the toughest decision... where to go.
Many people have a preconceived notion of where a honeymoon should take place.
And indeed, these locations are, year after year, some of the places most frequently visited by newlyweds.
We'll take a look at some of these "traditional" destinations as well as some that are a little "less traditional."
Think about what you and your fiancé might find appealing (and unappealing) in the following honeymoon vacations.
Be careful not to assume what your new spouse may be looking for in a honeymoon.
Couples are often surprised when they discover what the other partner considers a "vacation."
Refer to the section entitled Choosing A Destination to determine what each other's ideal vacation includes.
Listed below are sample honeymoon plans... both traditional and less traditional.
A brief description of some of the most popular honeymoon trips (ones that have remained popular with newlyweds for generations) is provided as well.
CRUISES...
Cruises are a popular retreat for those who want the luxury of a hospitable resort with the added benefit of visiting one or more new areas.
There are hundreds of different cruise options available to you.
Typically, almost everything is included in the cost of your cruise: extravagant dining, unlimited group and individual activities, relaxing days and lively nights.
Costs vary greatly depending on the location the cruise will visit (if any) and your cabin accommodations.
Locations range from traveling the Mississippi River to encircling the Greek Isles.
Spend some time choosing your cabin.
Most of them are small, but pay attention to distracting things, such as noisy areas and busy pathways, that might be located close by.
Even though most everything is included in your cost, be sure to ask and clarify which items may or may not be included.
ALL INCLUSIVE RESORTS...
Many newlyweds, tired from the previous months of wedding planning and accompanying stress, opt for the worry-free guarantee of an all-inclusive resort.
Some resorts are for the entire family, some are for couples only (not necessarily newlywed), and some are strictly for honeymooners.
Most of these resorts are nestled on a picturesque island beach catering to your relaxation needs.
Most offer numerous sports, water activities, entertainment, and exceptional service and attention.
Your costs will vary depending on the location you choose, and there are many, many to choose from.
"All-inclusive" means everything is included in your price.
You won't have to worry about meals, drinks, tour fees or even tips.
One way of considering if this is a good option for you is to list all of the activities that the vacation package offers that you are interested in.
Add up the individual costs and compare.
If you wouldn't be participating much in the activities, food, and drink, you may actually save money by arranging your own trip at an independent resort.
Even still, many couples prefer to spend the extra money in exchange for a vacation free of planning and wearying decisions.
Because of its convenience, many couples choose this resort option as the setting for their honeymoon.
Some of the most popular all-inclusive resorts are Club Med and Sandals.
THE POCONOS...
The Poconos Honeymoon resorts are located in Pennsylvania and are considered to be some of the most popular Honeymoon destinations around.
The Poconos offer a variety of individual resorts, each heavily laden with fanciful symbols of romance and sweet desires.
The atmosphere is perfect for those who want to be enveloped in a surrounding where you'll never forget you're in love and on your honeymoon.
Some travel packages here are considered all-inclusive, but as always, be sure to ask about exclusions and extras.
For information about honeymooning in the Poconos, call 1-800- POCONOS.
WALT DISNEY WORLD...
Another popular destination for those seeking a "theme" resort are those offered as Disney's Fairy Tale Honeymoons.
These vacation packages include accommodations at Disney's exclusive resorts and admission to their theme parks.
Some packages are also available with accommodations at some of the privately owned resorts at Disney World.
Prices for Disney packages can range greatly depending on your tastes and the amount of activity you desire.
For information about Disney's honeymoon packages, call (407) 828-3400.
Inquire with your travel agent about day or overnight cruises leaving from nearby ports in Florida.
This is one way to combine two very popular honeymoon options into one!
Other popular and traditional honeymoon plans are as follows:
• Enjoying the beaches and unique treasures of the Hawaiian islands
• Exploring Northern California's romantic wine country
• Ski and snowboard package getaways in Vermont, New Hampshire, Colorado, and Northern California
• Camping and hiking within the beautiful and adventurous National Parks
• Sightseeing, touring, and exploring a variety of points in Europe via the rail system
• Island hopping on a cruise ship around the Greek Isles
• Enjoying a fanciful and adventurous journey on the Orient Express
Less traditional honeymoons…
• Bicycling in Nova Scotia while relaxing at quaint Bed and Breakfast Inns
• Participating in a white water river rafting expedition in Oregon
• Mingling with the owners and fellow guests on an Old West Dude Ranch
• Visiting landmarks and parks while enjoying the convenience of a traveling home in a rented RV
• Mustering up the courage and stamina for an aggressive hiking tour of the Canadian Rockies
• Training for and participating in a dog sled race in the brisk tundra of Alaska
• "Roughing it" while enjoying the splendor of a safari in East Africa
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Maybe your idea of a perfect honeymoon is ten days of adventure and discovery; but for your fiancé, it may be ten days of resting in a beach chair and romantic strolls in the evening.
The choices for honeymoon vacations are as varied as the bride and groom themselves.
Deciding together on a honeymoon destination is a wonderful opportunity to discover more about each other and negotiate a vacation that will leave both of you relaxed, fulfilled, and even more in love.
First, determine the type of atmosphere and climate you prefer.
Then consider the types of activities you would like to engage in.
Do you want the weather to be hot for swimming at the beach... or warm for long guided tours of unknown cities... or cooler for day-long hikes in the woods... or cold for optimum skiing conditions?
Keep in mind the time of year in which your wedding falls.
Will you be escaping from warm or cool temperatures?
If you have a specific destination in mind, you (or your travel agent) will need to do some research to be sure the weather conditions will be suitable for your planned activities.
Review the previous information on traditional and non-traditional honeymoons and note what you feel are the pros and cons of each type of vacation.
The two of you should have lots of images and possibilities in your mind at this point!
The next step is to determine the most perfect atmosphere to provide the setting for your honeymoon.
The following sections, Creating A Wish List and Helpful Resources, will guide you through this next step and beyond.
Together with your fiancé, complete the following wish list worksheet.
You should each check off your preferences even if both of you don't agree on them.
There are many locations that provide a variety of activities.
Remember, you don't need to spend every minute of your honeymoon together, but your honeymoon destination should be one that intrigues both of you.
This worksheet is divided into 5 sections. You will be considering location, accommodations, meals, activities, and night life.
While completing the worksheet, be as true to your interests as possible; don't concern yourself with finances and practicality at this point.
This is your chance to let your mind wander!
Think about what you would like to fill your days and nights with.
This is the honeymoon of your dreams...
You step out of the plane, train, car or boat that took you to your honeymoon destination.
You sigh with satisfaction at the memory of your flawless and enjoyable wedding as your feet touch the ground...
What type of overall atmosphere do you see yourself stepping into?
What is the weather like?
Do you picture a long stretch of beach, towering mountains, blossoming vineyards, or city skyscrapers?
Is the dry sand of the desert blowing around or is everything captured under glistening snowcaps?
Are there many people walking around (many locals, many tourists), or is it a secluded retreat?
Are you relaxing indoors in a resort with a pampering environment that caters to your comfort?
Do you return to a simple, modest hotel or motel after a long day of sightseeing, touring, and dining?
Are you camping in the middle of your activities... hiking, climbing, fishing, etc.?
Do you see yourself interacting much with others?
Would you like to have these activities be organized?
Are there vistas and horizons to gaze endlessly upon, or is there an abundance of visual activity and changing scenery?
Are you enjoying exotic foods elaborately displayed and available to you at your leisure?
Are you testing out your sense of adventure on the local cuisine and dining hot spots?
Are you eating fast foods and pizza in exchange for spending your time and money on other items and activities that make your vacation exciting?
Are your evenings filled with romantic strolls or festivities that run late into the night?
Are you staying in for romantic evenings or re-energizing for another busy day of honeymooning?
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Each of you separately should place a check mark next to the items or images on the wish list that appeal to you.
After you have finished, highlight those items that both of you feel are important (the items that were checked by both of you).
Next, each of you should highlight, in a different colored marker or pen, 2 to 3 items in each category that you feel are very important to you individually (even though the other person may not have checked it.)
Your wish lists, after completing this exercise, will probably look like a list of all of the positive elements of all of your dream vacations combined.
This is good; you should list as many things as you can think of.
The more information you have, the better the suggestions your travel agent (or yourself if you'll be doing your own research) will be able to make.
Together, using this wish list, you will discover a honeymoon destination and match a honeymoon style that will fulfill your dreams.
The resource leads and exercises provided here will help you get from wish list to reality.
Happy Planning!
Location; ____________Bride ____________Groom
Hot weather ____________Bride ____________Groom
Mild weather ____________Bride ____________Groom
Cold weather ____________Bride ____________Groom
Dry climate ____________Bride ____________Groom
Moist climate ____________Bride ____________Groom
Sand and beaches ____________Bride ____________Groom
Lakes/ponds ____________Bride ____________Groom
Wilderness/wooded areas ____________Bride ____________Groom
Mountains____________Bride ____________Groom
Fields ____________Bride ____________Groom
City streets ____________Bride ____________Groom
Small local town ____________Bride ____________Groom
Large metropolitan area ____________Bride ____________Groom
Popular tourist destination ____________Bride ____________Groom
Visiting among the locals ____________Bride ____________Groom
Nighttime weather conducive to outdoor activities ____________Bride ____________Groom
Nighttime weather conducive to indoor activities ____________Bride ____________Groom
"Modern" resources and service available ____________Bride ____________Groom
"Roughing it" on your own ____________Bride ____________Groom
Culture and customs you are familiar and comfortable with ____________Bride ____________Groom
New cultures and customs you would like to get to know ____________Bride ____________Groom
Accommodations: ____________Bride ____________Groom
Part of a larger resort community ____________Bride ____________Groom
A stand alone building ____________Bride ____________Groom
Lodging amongst other fellow tourists____________Bride ____________Groom
Lodging amongst couples only ____________Bride ____________Groom
Lodging amongst fellow newlyweds only ____________Bride ____________Groom
Lodging amongst locals ____________Bride ____________Groom
Large room or suite ____________Bride ____________Groom
Plush, highly decorated surroundings____________Bride ____________Groom
Modestly sized room ____________Bride ____________Groom
Modest decor ____________Bride ____________Groom
Balcony ____________Bride ____________Groom
Private Jacuzzi in room ____________Bride ____________Groom
Room service ____________Bride ____________Groom
Chamber maid service____________Bride ____________Groom
Laundry / dry cleaning service available____________Bride ____________Groom
Laundry room available____________Bride ____________Groom
Beauty salon on premises____________Bride ____________Groom
Workout gym on premises____________Bride ____________Groom
Gift shop on premises____________Bride ____________Groom
Pool on premises ____________Bride ____________Groom
Poolside bar service____________Bride ____________Groom
Sauna, hot tub on premises ____________Bride ____________Groom
Common gathering lounge for guests____________Bride ____________Groom
Meals: ____________Bride ____________Groom
Casual dining ____________Bride ____________Groom
Formal dining ____________Bride ____________Groom
Prepared by executive chefs ____________Bride ____________Groom
Prepared by yourself/grocery store ____________Bride ____________Groom
Variety of local and regional restaurants ____________Bride ____________Groom
Traditional "American" cuisine ____________Bride ____________Groom
Opportunity for picnics ____________Bride ____________Groom
Exotic, international menu ____________Bride ____________Groom
Entertainment while dining ____________Bride ____________Groom
Planned meal times ____________Bride ____________Groom
Dining based on your own schedule ____________Bride ____________Groom
Fast food restaurants ____________Bride ____________Groom
Vegetarian meals, special diet meals ____________Bride ____________Groom
Delis, diners ____________Bride ____________Groom
Activities: ____________Bride ____________Groom
Sun bathing ____________Bride ____________Groom
Snorkeling ____________Bride ____________Groom
Diving ____________Bride ____________Groom
Swimming ____________Bride ____________Groom
Jet skiing ____________Bride ____________Groom
Water skiing ____________Bride ____________Groom
Fishing ____________Bride ____________Groom
Sailing ____________Bride ____________Groom
Snow skiing ____________Bride ____________Groom
Snow boarding ____________Bride ____________Groom
Hiking, rock climbing ____________Bride ____________Groom
Camping ____________Bride ____________Groom
Golf ____________Bride ____________Groom
Tennis ____________Bride ____________Groom
Aerobics ____________Bride ____________Groom
Site-seeing suggestions and guidance ____________Bride ____________Groom
Planned bus/guided tours ____________Bride ____________Groom
Ability to go off on your own ____________Bride ____________Groom
Historic tours ____________Bride ____________Groom
Art museums ____________Bride ____________Groom
Theater ____________Bride ____________Groom
Exploring family heritage ____________Bride ____________Groom
Night Life: ____________Bride ____________Groom
Quiet strolls ____________Bride ____________Groom
Outdoor activities ____________Bride ____________Groom
Sitting and relaxing outdoors ____________Bride ____________Groom
Sitting and relaxing in front of a fireplace ____________Bride ____________Groom
Being alone with each other ____________Bride ____________Groom
Being out with the locals ____________Bride ____________Groom
Being out with other newlyweds ____________Bride ____________Groom
Discovering new cultures and forms of entertainment ____________Bride ____________Groom
Dancing ____________Bride ____________Groom
Visiting bars/pubs ____________Bride ____________Groom
Theater / shows ____________Bride ____________Groom
Gambling ____________Bride ____________Groom
Other important elements: BRIDE GROOM
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Hiring the services of a good travel agent will take a lot of unnecessary pressure off of you.
In the past, you may have felt that you did not need the assistance of a travel agent when planning a vacation.
Planning a honeymoon, however, can often be far more involved and stressful than a "regular" vacation, due to the simple fact that you are also deeply enmeshed in the planning of your wedding!
Therefore, you should take advantage of the professional resources available to you when working out the small details and finding the best values.
Keep in mind, though, that you will still probably want to do some research on your own, ask for second opinions, and, most of all, read the fine print.
Since a travel agent can become one of your most valuable resources, you will want to consider a few important things when trying to select one.
Ask family, friends, and coworkers for personal recommendations (especially from former honeymooners).
If you are unable to find an agent through a personal referral, then select a few agencies that are established nearby (from newspapers, phone books, etc.)
Next, you will want to make an appointment with an agent or speak to one over the phone.
Pay close attention to the following and then make your decision.
Find out if they are a member of the American Society of Travel Agents (ASTA).
Additionally, find out if they are also a Certified Travel Counselor (CTC), or possibly a Destination Specialist (DS).
ASTA: Members of this organization are required to have at least 5 years travel agent experience.
They also agree to adhere to strict codes and standards of integrity in travel issues as established by the national society.
In most states, there are no formal regulations requiring certain qualifications for being a travel agent.
In other words, any person can decide to call him/herself, and thus advertise as, a travel agent.
CTC: Certified Travel Counselors have successfully completed a 2 year program in travel management.
DS: Destination Specialists have successfully completed studies focusing on a particular region.
For a list of ASTA agencies in your area, call or write:
American Society of Travel Agents
Consumer Affairs Department - 1101 King Street, Suite 200 - Alexandria, VA 22314 (703) 739-8739
For a list of Destination Specialists and Certified Travel Agents in your area, call or write:
Institute of Certified Travel Agents - 148 Linden Street - P.O. Box 56 - Wellesley, MA 02181
(800) 542-4282 (press "0" to be connected to a Travel Counselor)
Questions to Ask to Qualify Your Travel Agent...
How long has the Travel Agency been in business?
How long has the Travel Agent been with the agency?
How much experience does the Travel Agent have?
Any special studies or travels?
Do they have a good resource library?
Does the agent / agency have a variety of brochures to offer?
Do they have video tapes to lend?
Do they have a recommended reading list of travel aid books?
Does the agent seem to understand your responses on your wish list and budget?
Does he / she seem excited to help you?
Does the agent listen carefully to your ideas?
Take notes on your conversations?
Ask you questions to ensure a full understanding?
Is the agent able to offer a variety of different possibilities that suit your interests based on your wish list?
Do the suggestions fall within your budget?
Can the agent relay back to you (in his/her own words) what your wish list priorities are?
What your budget priorities are?
Is the agent prompt in getting back in touch with you?
Is the agent reasonably quick in coming up with suggestions and alternatives?
Are the suggestions exciting and within reason?
Does the agent take notes on your interests (degree of sports, leisure, food, etc.)?
Does the travel agency provide a 24 hour emergency help line?
Are you documenting your conversations and getting all of your travel plans and reservations confirmed in writing?
Aside from just offering information and arrangements about locations and discounts, a good travel agent should also provide you with information about passports, customs, travel and health insurance, travelers' checks, and any other information important to a traveler.
National bridal magazines and general travel magazines are a great place to search for honeymoon ideas.
But remember, you cannot always believe every word in paid advertising.
In addition to the information your travel agent provides, you can also obtain maps, brochures, and other useful items on your own.
At the end of this section, you will find many useful phone numbers to help you in contacting tourist bureaus and travel agencies worldwide.
These offices are extremely helpful in acquiring both general information (information about the weather, tourist attractions, landmarks, and even coupons or promotional brochures "selling" the area) and more specific information about reputable hotels, inns, bed and breakfasts, restaurants, etc.
Also provided in this section are phone numbers for sources specializing in information about traveling by train (in the United States as well as abroad) and for camping and hiking throughout the country.
If you have Internet access you can acquire volumes and volumes of information and titillating pictures about your possible destinations.
You can even "chat" with other fellow soon-to-be honeymooners or recent honeymooners about their experiences.
If you don't currently have access, local libraries often provide limited free time and user-assistance for their members.
Your local library, the travel section of book stores, and travel stores are also excellent sources for finding information and tips relevant to your travel needs.
You will find books on traveling in general as well as books specific to the region or destination you will be visiting.
There are numerous tour books, maps, language books and tapes, as well as books about a location's culture, traditions, customs, climate, and geography.
These books are a great source of information since they are independent from the locations they describe and are therefore impartial, objective, and usually contain correct, unbiased information.
You can also find books and other resources describing (and sometimes rating) restaurants, hotels, shows, and tours.
Books on bargain hunting and finding the best deals are common as well.
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The Traveler's Reading Guide:
Ready-Made Reading Lists for the Armchair Traveler by Maggy Simone:
A comprehensive listing of travel resources for almost every place in the world.
The Stephen Birnbaum Travel Guides
Frommer's Guides
Michelin's Green Guides; Michelin's Red Guides
Insight Guides
Let's Go! guides
Fodor's Guides
Fielding Travel Books
AYH Handbook and Hosteler's Manual: Europe and United States
The New York Times Practical Traveler
Mobil Travel Guide
Background Notes...
U.S. Government notes containing information about the culture, people, geography, history, government, economy, and maps of most countries worldwide.
The U.S. Government Printing Office Cost: $1.00
(1-202-512-1800)
or download at: www.access.gpo.gov
101 Tips For Adventure Travelers
Overseas Adventure Travel
1-800-221-0814)
National Park Service publications: (1-202-208-4747) www.nps.gov - National Park System Map and Guide - The National Parks: Index
National Forest Service publications: (1-202-205-1760) A Guide to Your National Forests
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You want your honeymoon to give you luxurious experiences and priceless memories.
But you don't want to return from your vacation to be faced with debts and unnecessary feelings of guilt for not having stayed within a reasonable budget.
This should be the vacation of a lifetime. You can make this trip into anything your imagination allows.
Pay attention to which experiences or details you would consider a "must have" and prioritize.
As you work with your budget, stay focused on those top priority items and allow less "elaborate" solutions for lower priority items.
If you stay true to your most important vacation objectives, the minor sacrifices along the way will barely be noticed.
Perhaps, at this point, you don't know how many days your honeymoon will last.
Often, the number of days you'll vacation depends on the type of honeymoon you choose.
If you (and your travel agent) are designing your own honeymoon, the typical cost-per-day will most likely determine your length of stay.
If you opt for a cruise or another type of prearranged vacation, your length of stay will probably be dependent upon the designated length of the travel package.
By determining a basic, overall budget at the start, you will know what your limits are.
Yes, this is a very romantic time... but try to remain realistic!
Once you have an idea of your spending limits, your choices will be much easier to make.
Don't be discouraged if you're unable to spend an infinite amount of money on this trip.
Very few couples are able to live life so carefree.
You can still experience a honeymoon that will leave you filled with those priceless memories... it's all in the planning!
The following budget worksheets will help guide you in creating your honeymoon budget.
You may want to make copies of this worksheet so that you can create several budget plans.
Keep trying different variations until you are satisfied with how your expenses will be allocated.
When comparing your potential honeymoon options, you'll find that laying out a simple budget is an effective, and essential, tool for making decisions.
Traditionally the groom is responsible for the honeymoon.
The groom will take on the challenges of gathering information and working through the necessary details of providing a perfect honeymoon for his new bride... and himself!
Nowadays, many couples find it necessary for both the bride and groom to contribute to the cost in order to experience the honeymoon of their dreams.
(Today, the average newlywed couple spends $2,500 to $3,500 on their honeymoon.)
Many couples, together, determine what each partner will contribute and then shape the budget from there.
Many couples find that including a Honeymoon Registry instead of, or in addition to, their traditional Bridal Registry is a great way for friends and family to contribute to the trip.
Some couples also include some version of a "Dollar Dance" at their reception.
This is a great way for the bride and groom to dance with many of their guests while accepting the dollar "dance fee" as a contribution to their honeymoon.
Some couples choose to pursue less romantic options for building up the honeymoon savings... part time jobs, yard sales, etc..
Whatever your methods may be, remember that increasing the amount of money you will spend does not automatically ensure a more pleasurable and enjoyable vacation.
Your most important and effective resource is your commitment to planning.
You will see that, regardless of what your budget limits may be, your vacation possibilities are endless.
Doing a budget analysis may be one of the most useful things you can do in planning your honeymoon.
With all the options available, a good cost analysis will help make the most appropriate decisions very clear to you.
First, create a budget for what you think allows for an ideal, yet reasonable, honeymoon.
Highlight those expenses which are top priorities.
For example, a spacious, ritzy hotel room may be the most important element for you.
Or, perhaps participating in numerous sports activities and excursions or enjoying fine dining is more important than a spacious room.
Next, as you come across different destinations and options that appeal to you, fill in a new budget worksheet.
Compare the results to other potential trips.
See how your priority items on each trip compare to one another.
Determine the pros and cons of each.
This is also an effective way of looking at the pros and cons of an all-inclusive package versus an independently organized trip.
NOTE: Once you've decided on your honeymoon destination and activities, fill in a new budget as accurately as possible and take it with you on your trip.
Use it to chart your expenses as they occur so you will have a visual guide of whether or not you are staying within budget.
If you find that you are going over your budget, take a look at those top priority items that you'd still like to keep.
See if you can eliminate some lower priority items to free up some money for the favored ones.
If you find you are under budget, celebrate with a special "gift" for yourselves (massages, an extravagant dinner, another afternoon of jet skiing, etc.).
This guide is provided to help you get familiar with customary gratuity standards you may encounter throughout your travels.
Tipping customs vary from country to country.
It is advisable to inquire about tipping with the international tourism board representing the country you'll be traveling in.
Simply ask for information about tipping customs and social expectations.
You will also want to discuss gratuities with your travel agent or planner.
Some travel packages include gratuities in the total cost, some leave that to the guests, and some even discourage tipping (usually because they have built it into the total package price)
Be sure to discuss this with your travel planner.
AIR TRAVEL
Skycaps $1.00 per bag
Flight Attendants none
ROAD TRAVEL
Taxi Drivers 15% of fare (no less than 50 cents)
Limousine Driver usually included in bill
Valet Parking $1.00
Tour Bus Guide $1.00
RAIL TRAVEL
Redcaps $1.00 per bag (or posted rate plus 50 cents)
Sleeping Car Attendant $1.00 per person
Train Conductor and Crew none
Dining Car Attendant 15% of bill
Cabin Steward 2.5 to 7.5% of fare (paid at the end of the trip)
Dining Room Waiter 2.5 to 7.5% of fare (paid at the end of the trip)
Cabin Boy, Bar Steward, Wine Steward 5 to 7.5% of total fare (divided proportionately among them)
RESTAURANTS
Maitre d', Headwaiter none (unless special services provided, then typically $5.00)
Waiter/Waitress 15% of bill (pretax total)
Bartender 15% of bill
Wine Steward 15% of bill
Washroom Attendant 25 to 50 cents
Coat Check Attendant $1.00 for 1 or 2 coats
(NOTE: Some restaurants in foreign countries add the gratuity and/or service charge to your bill. If it has not been added, tip the customary regional rate.)
HOTEL / RESORT
Concierge $2.00 to 10.00 for special attention or arrangements
Doorman $1.00 for hailing taxi
Bellhop $1.00 per bag 50 cents for showing room
Room Service 15% of bill
Chamber Maid $1.00 to 2.00 per day or $5.00 to10.00 per week for longer stays (no tip for one night stays)
Pool Attendant 50 cents for towel service
MISCELLANEOUS
Barbershop 15% of cost
Beauty Salon 15% of cost
Manicure $1.00 to 5.00 depending on cost of service
Facial 15% of cost
Massage 15% of cost
The Silver Creek Park Wedding Chapel has one of the areas best cakes for taste and appearence
Wedding cakes may be ordered from a caterer or from a bakery.
Some hotels and restaurants may also be able to provide a wedding cake.
However, you will probably be better off ordering your wedding cake from a bakery that specializes in wedding cakes.
Selecting a Wedding Cake...
Ask to see photographs of other wedding cakes your wedding cake maker has created.
You can also request a taste seating where you can go and taste various wedding cakes from your wedding cake makers
Here at Silver Creek Park Wedding Chapel, we custom create your wedding cake in some of our packages, and also sell cakes for an additional fee
Wedding cakes may be ordered from a caterer or from a bakery.
Some hotels and restaurants may also be able to provide a wedding cake.
However, you will probably be better off ordering your cake from a bakery that specializes in wedding cakes.
Ask to see photographs of other wedding cakes your baker has created, and by all means, ask for a tasting!
Options...
When ordering your cake, you will have to decide not only on a flavor, but also on a size, shape and color.
Size is determined by the number of guests.
You can choose from one large tier to two, three, or more smaller tiers.
The cake can be round, square or heart-shaped.
The most common flavors are chocolate, carrot, lemon, rum, and "white" cakes.
You can be creative by adding a filling to your cake, such as custard, strawberry, or chocolate.
You may also want to consider having tiers of different flavors.
Things To Consider When Deciding On A Wedding Cake...
Price, workmanship, quality, and taste vary considerably from baker to baker.
In addition to flavor, size, and cost, consider decoration and spoilage (sugar keeps longer than cream frostings).
The cake should be beautifully displayed on its own table decorated with flowers or greenery.
Make sure the baker, caterer, or reception site manager can provide you with a pretty cake-cutting knife.
If not, you will need to purchase or rent one.
When determining the size of the cake, don't forget that you'll be saving the top tier for your first anniversary.
This top tier should be removed before the cake is cut, wrapped in several layers of plastic wrap or put inside a plastic container, and kept frozen until your anniversary.
Groom's Cake...
The groom's cake is an old southern tradition whereby this cake is cut up and distributed to guests in little white boxes engraved with the bride and groom's names.
Today the groom's cake, if offered, is cut and served along with the wedding cake.
Options...
Usually a chocolate cake decorated with fruit.
Cake Delivery & Set Up Fee...
These additional charges are included here at Silver Creek Park Wedding Chapel
This is the fee charged by bakers to deliver and set up your wedding cake at the reception site.
It usually includes a deposit on the cake pillars and plate which will be refunded upon their return to the baker.
Cake Cutting Fee...
Most reception sites and caterers charge a fee for each slice of cake they cut if the cake is brought in from an outside bakery.
This fee will probably shock you.
It is simply their way of enticing you to order the cake through them.
And unfortunately, many sites and caterers will not allow a member of your party to cut the cake.
The bride's cake is often topped and surrounded with fresh flowers, but traditional cake tops are also very popular.
Options...
Bells, love birds, a bridal couple or replica of two wedding rings are popular choices for cake tops and can be saved as mementos of your wedding day.
Beware...
Some porcelain and other heavier cake tops need to be anchored down into the cake.
If you're planning to use a cake top other than flowers, be sure to discuss this with your baker.
Cake Knife & Toasting Glasses...
Your cake knife and toasting glasses should compliment your overall setting; these items will bring you happy memories of your wedding day every time you use them.
The cake knife is used to cut the cake at the reception.
The bride usually cuts the first two slices of the wedding cake with the groom's hand placed over hers.
The groom feeds the bride first, then the bride feeds the groom.
This tradition makes beautiful wedding photographs.
You will need toasting glasses to toast each other after you cut the cake.
They are usually decorated with ribbons or flowers and kept near the cake.
This tradition also makes beautiful wedding photographs.
Things To Consider...
Consider having your initials and wedding date engraved on your wedding knife as a memento.
Consider purchasing crystal or silver toasting glasses as a keepsake of your wedding.
Have your florist decorate your knife and toasting glasses with flowers or ribbons.
Questions To Ask Bakery Or Cake Designer...
• What is the name of the bakery?
• What is the address of the bakery?
• What is the name & phone number of my contact person?
• How many years have you been making wedding cakes?
• What are your wedding cake specialties?
• Do you offer free tasting of your wedding cakes?
• Do you freeze your wedding cakes?
• How far in advance should I order my cake?
• Can you make a groom's cake?
• Do you lend, rent or sell cake knives?
• What is the cost per serving of my desired cake?
• What is your cake pillar and plate rental fee, if any?
• Is this fee refundable upon the return of these items?
• When must these items be returned?
• What is your cake delivery and set-up fee?
• What is your payment policy?
• What is your cancellation policy?
Beautiful Wedding Favor Ideas to Fit Your Style and Your Budget.
Wedding favors come in such a large variety it is often difficult to make a choice. Below, you'll find some of the most popular types of wedding favors.
Handicraft Wedding Favors
An excellent way to offer an original wedding favor and save money at the same time is to make small crafts for your guests.
While a hand-crafted favor adds uniqueness to your gift, it requires a lot of work you make them yourself.
Personalized Wedding Favors
Make sure your guests remember where they received the small gift by personalizing it. A popular option is etched glass. You can have either your initials or complete names etched on messages bottles, cups, vases and candleholders.
Glass isn't the only thing you can have etched. Tin works well, too. This can be mint tins or tin coasters. You can even have your names etched in plastic, soap and some food products.
Sure, guests will remember who gave them the favor but how many of them will actually display it in their home, no matter how decorative it is? Not many beyond close family and friends I suppose.
Edible Wedding Favors
Edible wedding favors are a huge favorite. Rarely will you come across someone who doesn't like chocolates, candy, nuts or mints. These are the most common types of edible wedding favors.
You can add to this list the "drinkable" wedding favors also. Flavored teas and coffees are available in colorful packets, sachets and tins. Many of the tins are decorated with romantic motifs.
Of course, edible wedding favors require special care so that the snacks or sweets don't ruin. Chocolates should be kept refrigerated until near serving time.
Using crafts for favors is great if you plan on having a small number of guests. For larger groups, you will probably want to either get some friends to help you make the favors or contract someone to do it.
Candle Wedding Favors
What are the hot sellers? Besides the edible wedding favors, candles, potpourri sachets, pewter collectables, and photo albums are some pretty popular choices.
Who doesn't have a scented candle or two in their home? What better way to have someone remember you than when some sweet smell fills their home. The same goes for the potpourri.
As you can see, there are tons of wonderful wedding favors to choose from and the number of possiblities grows daily.
Unique Wedding Favors
A unique idea is to give each guest a number and raffle off a larger prize. While this can be fun during the actual raffle, you may not want the majority of your guests going away as "losers".
Other fun wedding favors that you can purchase for a reasonable price are puzzle boxes, fortune cookies and personalized toilet paper (yes, even toilet paper).
Bottle openers, corkscrews, bath fizz, and flower seeds in heart-shaped packets are just some of the unique wedding favors you can find. These may be unique compared to the more popular favors but they are also some of the most useful.
Need some wedding food ideas? You'll find some tips below to help you make better decisions about the food served at your wedding.
The first decision that has to be made about your wedding food is whether you will hire a caterer or prepare and serve everything with the help of family and friends, of course.
Basically, a caterer will be more expensive but less time-consuming on your part and, therefore, less stressful. On the other hand, buying and preparing the food yourself will save you quite a bit of money.
A caterer can provide professional service in the preparation, presentation and serving of the food. Can you provide professional service by preparing and serving the food yourself? This depends on your volunteers.
If you plan to use a caterer, be sure to request a tasting session before signing the contract. Verify the quality of of the food and it's preparation.
Even if you choose to cater the event, ask for the caterer to prepare the food for self-service. This will greatly reduce the cost since there will be no need for waiters and waitresses.
Get an accurate count of your guests. Running out of food sends a very negative message. Of course, having way too much food, adds an unnecessary expense to an already expensive event.
One tip for choosing wedding food is to opt for simplicity. If you serve foods that you know a majority of people like, you are sure to please.
Finally, serve your guests as quickly as possible. It is normal for guests not to eat before attending a wedding in anticipation of the food that will be served at the event.
Hungry guests make for irritable guests. To keep your guests happy and the event joyful, serve the wedding food asap.
With these wedding food ideas you should be able to make more conscious decisions about how and what you want to serve your guests
The big day is fast approaching, and the energy of the moment sweeps you up. But does it carry your hair along too? Use the following checklist to ensure your wedding day hair is everything you dream it will be:
1. Which stylist? Make bookings for consultations with more than one stylist well in advance and decide on the one you feel most comfortable with. You should be able to express your likes and dislikes without feeling awkward.
2. Long hair, shoulder length, or short hair? It is important to consult with your stylist well in advance and make a decision. Long hair obviously gives the stylist much freedom for creativity but a skilled stylist can also work well with medium and short styles. Be sure to choose a length that fits with your personality and style.
3. Have your hair compliment your wedding dress. This can be done by both style and accessories. Smooth, straight hair and pinned up curls are often paired up with smooth satin gowns, whereas a tulle dress often goes well with soft curls.
4. Take into consideration your silhouette. If it's along horizontal lines such as with a wide dress, you'll want to stick with that look for your hair as well. The same goes for a vertical profile.
5. You'll be spending a lot of time at the salon picking out the perfect hairstyle, so it's best to be prepared. Be sure to wash your hair the night before your consultation, and try to have some pictures of styles you'd like to try out.
6. Take a picture of your wedding dress along to your stylist. This will greatly help the process along. Also take your veil with you, and let the stylist know what kind of wedding you are having: formal, informal, evening, daytime. Alternatively, consult with your stylist before deciding on your headpiece.
7. If you are interested in a new cut or color to your hair, don't wait until right before your wedding. Make the changes during the initial consultation with the stylist, so that you don't have any unpleasant surprises down the road.
8. After you have decided on your style, make sure you walk around with it. Your wedding day will be a long one and you certainly don't want an uncomfortable hair do causing irritation!
9. Your veil length will have some influence on your choiceof hair style. Normally, the veil is longer than the hair. It is often secured in back swept hair (for up dos) and it's important to make sure the style can hold the veil in place.
10. What accessories are you going to wear? You will already (hopefully!) have your head piece picked out. Flowers, pins, and beads can be used to add an extra sparkle to your hair, and you can and should coordinate them with the rest of your jewelry.
It may sound like choosing a bridal hair style is astrenuous activity, but the care and preparation is simply to make sure your wedding day is the best it can be.
Following this ten point checklist will ensure your wedding day hair style is a delight, not a disaster!
Wedding Gifts... Making Sure That You Get What You Want!
Whenever anyone receives a wedding invite, one of the first things that goes through their minds, is what they should choose as perfect wedding gifts.
Creating a well thought out list of potential wedding gifts is actually an art form and requires a great deal of attention to detail if you want to make sure that you get what you want - without upsetting any guests!
Perfect Wedding Gifts
Choosing your ideal wedding gifts should be done with your guests in mind. For example, if you have a large number of young or student guests you may want to ask for wedding gifts that can be bought cheaply.
A great way of doing this is to have options such as wineglasses, where guests can buy just 2 glasses or they can buy a set of 8 or more, if they choose.
The more flexibility that you offer your guests when it comes to wedding gifts, the less likely they are to 'go it alone' and potentially choose something that you do not like.
It may seem a little presumptuous to send a wedding list out with your invitations but it can save a lot of bother in the long run. Many of the large department stores now offer wedding gifts' service where individuals can visit the store and make any purchases that they desire.
The list is kept updated and therefore minimizes the risks of duplication.
By choosing a company to run your wedding gifts' list, you do not need to send out an actual list with every invitation, but simply make people aware of the existence of the list and any relevant reference numbers.
When choosing the best company, be aware of where your guests live, ensure that there is a branch or shop that is convenient for at least most of your guests.
Better still choose a company that offers an online service, so that anyone in the world can make use of the wedding gifts directory.
With so many people waiting until they are a lot older to marry, the tradition of receiving wedding gifts to 'set up home' has largely disappeared.
As a result, many couples now look for novel and interesting wedding gifts. For example, there is a growing trend, recently, for suggesting charitable donations to a chosen organization, as an alternative to more traditional wedding gifts.
When it comes to selecting a choice of wedding gifts, it pays to be open-minded, whilst you may not always get exactly what you want, do remember that they are gifts, so smile nicely, and thank your guests.
The wedding invitation is the first impression guests will have of your wedding. Therefore, it should reflect your style as a couple and the type of cermony you plan to have: informal, traditional, original, luxury, etc.
The wedding invitations also have to fit within your budget. The following tips will help you make the right choices and avoid common errors that could cost both time and money.
Wedding Invitation Models
The invitation should have essential information about the wedding cermony, such as the parent´s names, date, time and location. Information about the reception should also be included. The guest´s name shoud be written on the envelope.
The text of the wedding invitation should be written in the third person singular.
If this is the second marriage for the couple, the parents names may be left off the invitation.
If any parent is deceased, in memorian should be written in front of the name.
Types of Paper, Font & Format
Compare prices from at least three sources taking into consideration the following items. You will find our recommendations at the end of this article.
The paper should be of good quality. Two good options are vergé or couché. Preference should be given to either white or ivory.
The format should be neither too small nor too large. Wedding invitations of 20cm x 16cm or 20cm x 26 cm are the most common.
The font used should be legible. Although cursive fonts have a certain charm and elegance, many of them are difficult to read. The font color should be either black or graphite.
It´s always a good idea to order extra wedding invitations in case of miscalculations or for those you remember at the last minute.
Unless you have excellent writing skills, the best option is to hire a calligrapher. A good professional will help you personalize your invitations.
Of course, you can always through out convention and create your own wedding invitations. Let your creativity flow!
How To Address Your Wedding Invitations
There are basically three ways to address a wedding invitations, each with a different meaning. See the examples:
Mr. Joe Smith and Family: This means that the couple and their children are invited. If other relatives live with them, they, too, are invited.
Mr. and Mrs. Smith or more informally Joe Smith and Mary Smith: This means that only the couple are invited.
R.S.V.P.
R.S.V.P. is French for Respondéz S´il Vous Plait which means Please Respond.
Usually, this appears in the left bottom corner of the wedding invitation. It is followed by a telephone number and deadline for confirming one´s presence. If you prefer, you can write "Please confirm your presence."
When To Send Your Wedding Invitations
There is no specific date to mail your wedding invitations. It´s adviseable to send them two months to 30 days before the wedding. Guests who live in the same city should receive their invitation by hand.
A wedding party is a special moment with family and friends that will remain with you for a long time. However, there is a lot to do to plan and organize the event. We've gathered some tips to help you make your wedding party and flying success.
Formula for Successful Wedding Party
A wedding in the family, especially if it is the first, is such an important event that parents are inclined to forget the limits of their finances and to give the bride the kind of wedding she has always dreamed about. If she (or her mother) has decided upon a large formal wedding with a reception afterward for many guests, a caterer should be employed.
Tables and chairs, dishes, linen and silver, as well as food and service and sometimes even table decorations will be supplied for a previously set fee. Champagne or the wedding punch may also be part of the caterer's responsibilities, or they may be the contribution of the father of the bride.
In general, the trend toward informality has extended to wedding parties. We no longer expect elaborate "collations" to follow an afternoon or evening wedding. The items served will be very little different from those offered at a cocktail party, except that champagne or a punch will usually replace the cocktails.
It should be offered as soon as guests arrive. In addition, there will, of course, be a wedding cake which the bride with the aid of the groom will make a ceremony of cutting. A large cake of this type decorated appropriately will usually be purchased even when the sandwiches and canapes are prepared in the home kitchen. A groom's cake of the dark fruit cake type is seldom served nowadays.
Instead, small boxes of fruit cake may be furnished for guests to take with them "to dream on." It should be cut, boxed and tied a few days before the ceremony. If the group is not too large and if there is extra help in the kitchen, a simple buffet supper may be served. In this case, there may be a large table for the bridal party and arrangements for serving them, while the other guests will help themselves from the buffet.
When the wedding is at noon or late afternoon, either a buffet or a "sit down" meal may be offered. For the latter, there must be space for the arrangement of tables, with place settings of napkins and silver. For either type of service, unless the caterer is employed, the hostess must make certain that she has on hand enough silver and china. Neighbors will be delighted when called upon to supplement the home supply, if this is necessary.
The formula for a successful wedding party includes careful planning ahead of time, with consideration of the facilities the particular home offers and with regard to the expenditure that can be made. Extra assistance for service is more important than for any other type of entertaining, as the hostess should not be harried with supervision of this sort in addition to the many other demands that are bound to occur when a daughter marries.
Pre-wedding festivities may include a luncheon for the bridesmaids given by the bride's mother or by a friend. If a wedding reception or breakfast is planned to take place at a club or hotel, a dinner or buffet supper for the bridal party may be planned at home to take place after the church rehearsal.
The menus suggested in the chapters for "Buffet Suppers and Luncheons" and "Small Dinner Parties and Luncheons" will be appropriate for these. If the groom plans an ushers' dinner or supper, the suggestions for the arrangements of "Stag Parties" may be followed.
Other pre-wedding festivities will be planned for earlier dates. The announcement of the engagement may take place at a luncheon given by the bride's mother or by a close friend. For this, the menus suggested for "Small Dinner Parties and Luncheons" will, of course, be suitable.
For the numerous shower parties, either the afternoon or evening may be chosen. Guests may be asked to drop in for tea or cocktails, or for coffee and dessert, after which the shower gifts will be opened. Instead, packages may be unwrapped soon after the guests arrive and afternoon or evening snacks served later. Sometimes, guests will be asked for the evening and late refreshments will take the form of ice cream and cake. The latter may be a decorated miniature wedding cake carrying favors that will indicate the future of the recipient: a ring for the next bride-to-be, a piece of money for the financially successful, and a button for the spinster or bachelor. During the evening, a wine punch or wine and seltzer in which to drink the health of the bride-to-be may be offered.
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Engraving your wedding ring is a great way to add a special touch to this symbol of unending love. It's the little things that often have a big impact on your relationship.
Following are five wedding ring engraving ideas.
Wedding Ring Engraving Idea #1: A Simple Declaration of Love
It isn't necessary that you come up with an extraordinarily original idea. Often, the simplest phrases have the greatest impact. Sometimes, less is more. Consider engraving "I love you", "I will love you forever", or "Forever yours".
Wedding Ring Engraving Idea #2: Your Wedding Vows
If your wedding vows are not very long, you may be able to engrave them on your rings. However, if you think it's too much, you can choose one sentence or a small phrase that represents the essence of your vows and have that engraved on them.
Wedding Ring Engraving Idea #3: A Bible Verse
Engraving a Bible verse on a wedding ring is probably one of the most popular options. You might choose a verse about love such as "Love never ends" from 1 Corinthians 13.13 or "My beloved is mine and I am his/hers" from the Song of Soloman.
Wedding Ring Engraving Idea #4: A Love Poem
While not as popular as days gone by, poetry is still a perfect way to express one's deepest emotions. You might try writing your own love poem. If you have no inclination for writing, you can always turn to a famous poet.
Wedding Ring Engraving Idea #5: A Special Song
Is there a particular song that you and your partner have declared to be "our song"? Usually, it's a song that either reminds you of a special moment in your relationship like the first time you met, tells a story similar to your own or speaks perfectly of the feeling you have for one another.
You can have the title of the song engraved in your wedding rings. A better idea might be to have a line from the chorus engraved in them.
The list of wedding scrapbook ideas below doesn't even scratch the surface of possiblities. You can use them as a jumping off point and add your own creative touch to your wedding scrapbook.
Interest in scrapbooking has grown exponentially over the past several years. Because of this, there are thousands of wonderful materials you can use to create your scrapbook.
Of course, much of what you will include in your wedding scrapbook will be items from the wedding itself. Check out the list of suggestion below.
Let's begin with photos. You do have a lot of wedding photos, don't you? Think about including...
• Photos of wedding planning.
• Photos of wedding shower.
• Photo of the bride alone.
• Photo of the groom alone.
• Photo fo the happy couple.
• Photos with maid-of-honor, bridesmaids, best man and groomsmen.
• Photos with partents
• Photos of the location.
• Photos of the reception.
Other things you might want to include in your wedding scrapbook are...
• Wedding invitation
• Wedding program
• Bridal registery
• List of guests
• List of gifts received
• Pressed flowers used in decoration
• A napkin from the dinner
• Wedding favor given to guests
The color scheme of your scrapbook you should be the same as that of your wedding. That way, the photos and other items you include will create a perfect harmony with your scrapbook pages.
Bridal showers are one of many pre-wedding parties and are great fun. They are known as parties with a purpose.
The purpose of a shower is to assist the couple in equipping their new home or for the bride to assemble a trousseau. Not only that, but they are a good excuse for the bride to get together with her friends and family to play hilarious games and to enjoy the food and wine.
Did you know that a trend has started for ‘couples showers’? This is sometimes termed as the ‘Jack’ and ‘Jill’ shower where you shower both the bride and groom with gifts and good wishes. Either way, if you are having a traditional shower party for just the bride, or decide to have a couples shower, then the planning and the checklist will invariably be the same.
Here is an outline of a wedding shower checklist to get you on your way to organising a great shower party.
Who Should Host The Shower?
Traditionally the maid of honour tends to plan the shower party. But today, anything goes and it is perfectly acceptable for both family and friends to work together to organize, host and share the cost of the wedding shower. It doesn’t really matter who actually hosts the party as long as it is planned well in advance and normally in consultation with the bride. If the shower is planned to be in someone’s home, then it’s always a good idea to choose the person with the largest home or garden.
When To Have Your Party
Because of the busy schedule the bride and her family will have in the lead up to her wedding, it is best to hold the shower about four to six weeks before the wedding. A growing trend is that more wedding showers are no longer a surprise and statistics show that 4 out of 5 brides are employed, therefore it is necessary to include the bride in the planning when it comes to setting a date and time. A traditional ’girl-only’ party could be a Sunday brunch, a midweek lunch or an afternoon tea garden party.
Couples showers are best held on a weekend day or evening. The majority of people tend to work between 9-5 Monday-Friday, therefore a weekend is a safe bet in that most of the couples’ friends and relatives can attend. If you are having a shower party with work colleagues, then the ideal time would be in your lunch hour or straight after work.
Who To Invite
Apart from your family members, the host should invite people you know well whether it be friends, relatives or work colleagues. You don’t want to invite too many people, as a large group tends to split off in small separate groups. You want everyone to interact with each other and be a manageable size for everybody to play the hilarious shower games and not feel left out. Taking all this into consideration, a comfortable shower should involve about 10-20 people.
You don’t necessarily need to buy expensive shower invitations. Another growing trend is that many brides are doing their wedding research on the Internet. The internet has opened up many ‘cheaper’ avenues and you can now get some great printable-wedding-shower-invitations. These invitations are customized with your own wording and design, and are printed directly from your own printer.
What’s Your Theme?
As with the actual wedding, it is wise to choose a theme before sending out the invitations. The theme can then be used throughout the shower and incorporated in with the invitations, decorations, favors and refreshments.
There are literally dozens of topics for a shower party theme. The most popular is the ‘kitchen’ theme as there are endless pieces of equipment and accessories you can buy for the kitchen. The host knows the bride well and will surely fit a theme around either what the bride and groom need, or their lifestyle. For example if the happy couple are both into health and fitness, then a fitness theme could be an option.
One good idea for a couples shower is a wine tasting theme. This is ideal for a Saturday night party and I am sure the men will enjoy this one and easily get into the swing of things!
Food, Favors & Games
Food: It depends on the theme and location for which type of food to prepare. For example, if you are holding a ‘wine tasting theme’, then a finger buffet with crackers, nuts and other nibbles goes down well with wine. If you are holding a garden shower party, consider light finger food - cheeses, crackers, fresh fruit, mini-quiches, blueberry cream puffs, crab dip and a bacon, egg and cheese casserole and salads.
Favors: Some people choose not to give shower favors. It really depends on where you live and if it is a tradition in your area or not. If you do, you don’t have to go overboard with favors if you want to keep the expense down. Give something small and useful like a scented candle. Most people like scented candles and they are practical. A potpourri satchel is another welcome and practical idea.
Games: Everyone should be included in the shower games. Shower party games are a great ice-breaker for people to get to know each other. Games can include bridal shower bingo as this is always a big hit as is ‘what’s in the bag (memory game). Trivia questions about the bridge and groom or making a wedding dress with toilet paper are all fun games to be had.
Thank You Cards: Normally a simple ‘thank-you’ was enough, but today, with showers being larger and guests busier, a personal note is the only way to make sure that sincere appreciation is expressed.
Summary
Bridal showers are meant to be fun. They do need a lot of planning and organization in advance, but they are worth it. The bride and groom receive practical gifts for their home, and shower party’s are a great excuse to get together with friends and family to have one whale of a time!
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If you or someone you know is celebrating a wedding anniversary, gifts are in order. We have put together a list of popular, unique and personalized wedding anniversary gift ideas that will leave your loved one´s heart throbbing or tenderly express your affection to someone you care about.
Traditional and Modern Anniversary Gift Lists
Popular, unique and personalized wedding anniversary gift ideas that will leave your love one´s heart throbbing.
Anniversary Gift Ideas
1st Anniversary - Paper - Personalized Stationery - Art Prints
2nd Anniversary - Cotton - Anniversary Photo Quilt - Bed & Bath Blowout
3rd Anniversary - Leather - Leather Gifts - Leather Furniture
4th Anniversary - Linen - Bed & Bath Towels - Bed Clothes
5th Anniversary Wood Deluxe Wood Boxes Fine Wood Art Objects
6th Anniversary Iron Free Shipping at Bellacor Wrought Iron Garden Bench
7th Anniversary - Wool - Rugs -
8th Anniversary - Bronze - Bronze Finished Furniture - Bronze Statues
9th Anniversary - Pottery - Decorative Pottery - Fine Pottery Objects
10th Anniversary - Tin - Collectable Tins - Fun Cookie Tins
15th Anniversary - Crystal - Table Lamps - Glassware
20th Anniversary - China - Dinnerware -
25th Anniversary - Silver - Sterling Silver Jewelry -
30th Anniversary - Pearl - Jewelry
35th Anniversary - Coral - Jewelry
40th Anniversary - Ruby - Jewelry
45th Anniversary - Sapphire - Jewelry
50th Anniversary - Gold - Jewelry
60th Anniversary - Emerald - Jewelry
75th Anniversary - Diamond - Jewelry
Modern Anniversary Gift List
Anniversary Gift Suggestions
1st Anniversary - Clock - Anniversary Clock
2nd Anniversary - China - Dinnerware
3rd Anniversary - Crystal
4th Anniversary - Appliances -
5th Anniversary - Silverware -
6th Anniversary - Wood - Wood Boxes - Wood Art Objects
7th Anniversary - Desk Sets - Home Office Furnishings
8th Anniversary - Linens -
9th Anniversary - Leather - Leather Gifts - Leather Furniture
10th Anniversary - Diamond - Jewelry
15th Anniversary - Watches -
20th Anniversary - Platinum - Jewelry
25th Anniversary - Silver - Jewelry -
30th Anniversary - Diamond - Jewelry
35th Anniversary - Jade - Jewelry
40th Anniversary - Ruby - Jewelry
45th Anniversary - Sapphire - Jewelry
50th Anniversary - Gold - Jewelry
60th Anniversary - Emerald - Jewelry
75th Anniversary - Diamond - Jewelry
The wedding bouquet is an essential part of your wedding ensemble. What else would you do with your hands during the ceremony?
The important thing isn't just having a bouquet but having one that harmonizes with your body type, your dress and the wedding decorations.
You will also want to consider the bouquets your maid-of-honor and bridesmaids will use. The bride's bouquet should stand out from the rest in both size and color.
If you plan to where a traditional white dress, you can use just about any color of flowers. However, some bouquets are more elegant when the flowers used are all the same color. A more casual bouquet of wild flowers can have a variety of colors.
If you plan to wear a strong colored wedding gown, you should consider a calmer color for your bouquet. This will soften the combination somewhat.
Wedding Bouquet... Real or Silk?
Depending on the number of attendants, the colors in your wedding, the time of year, and your budgetary constraints, choosing the flowers for your wedding bouquet can be one of the most fun tasks on your wedding schedule. You must have the color scheme and the season of the ceremony chosen before you make an appointment with your florist.
Most florists offer both real and silk flowers, in an assortment of styles and prices. If you aren’t pleased with what you see, ask about designing your own wedding bouquet. It is also possible to mix real and silk flowers in the same bouquet. Generally speaking, a silk bouquet obviously lasts longer and retains its freshness, which is nice, especially if you will be displaying it next to your wedding album or on a shelf next to your wedding portrait. Even if your wedding bouquet is silk, the florist should provide you with a smaller, real bouquet for tossing at the reception.
Not all brides get excited over choosing the wedding bouquet and flowers. If you don’t know a pansy from a daffodil, consider choosing a wedding color scheme and asking the florist to use flowers that match and to decorate with lots of ribbons and bows. Ribbons and bows can make or break a bouquet, especially if you are trying to please mothers and mothers-in-law who are looking for large, showy bouquets. In addition, adding ribbons and bows sometimes lowers the cost of a bouquet, because not as many flowers are needed.
Silk flowers can cost considerably less than real flowers, if you are creative. Silk flower arranging classes are given at almost all craft stores. In addition, many of the stores will actually create the wedding bouquet for you at a far lower price than your florist. If, however, you are ordering both silk and real bouquets, you may choose to stay with the same florist for consistency. Determine how much of the budget is going toward silk bouquets and do some comparison-shopping.
If you want blue and white silk roses with decorative ribbon in your silk wedding bouquet, ask your florist for samples of the ribbon and other bows or lace, and take them to the arts and crafts store. Ask if they can create such bouquets, and if they can be ready when you need them. Be sure you leave yourself plenty of time prior to the wedding date in case they are not as you anticipated. If things need to be changed or fixed, you need time to have them corrected. Also, make sure everything you are requesting is written down on the order form – if they don’t do it, and you can’t prove they were supposed to, you might find yourself in a frustrating situation.
The wedding ceremony is a special moment of a new beginning. Before family and friends, you and your partner declare your commitment to one another and initiate a life-long journey of love and companionship.
This moment is yours. Therefore, the wedding ceremony should reflect your personality and likes. Everything from the decorations to the apparel should have your image "stamped" on it.
When it comes to your wedding ceremony, nobody wants to spend an arm and a leg on this and still have to foot the bill for the reception. Really, it depends on where you want your wedding to be and what type of service that you hope to have.
There are three major locations for the ceremony: a church building, a wedding chapel or outdoors. The possiblities for an outdoor wedding are varied. You can have your ceremony in your backyard, a garden, the beach or park.
Wedding Ceremonies... It Comes Down to the Details!
Wedding ceremonies are simply not what they used to be. Set patterns and traditional format ceremonies are making way for unique, well thought out wedding ceremonies that are tailored to the individual needs of the bride and groom. However, whatever type of wedding ceremony you chose, there are still some important considerations when planning picture-perfect wedding ceremonies.
Wedding Ceremonies... The Timing
Time of year is fundamental. Not everyone wants a summer wedding, although most brides and grooms tend to favor summertime wedding ceremonies, which means that popular venues are likely to be booked up, well in advance. If you are prepared to take a less traditional approach, in terms of dates and times, you may find that you have a much wider choice of venues.
These days, many wedding ceremonies take place in non-traditional locations such as beaches or even underwater! Whilst it may be easier to find availability for a more unusual venue, these specialist ceremonies are likely to be more expensive.
Another great way of securing the venue that you really want, at a cheap price, is to be flexible. Many locations now offer evening or mid-week wedding ceremonies, at a reduced price. Getting married at a non-traditional time is also likely to mean that other costs such as transport, accommodation and photography are cheaper. Overall, you can make substantial savings.
No two wedding ceremonies are the same and one of the best ways to add an individual touch, without going overboard, is to create your own vows.
These need not be religious, and can often be more meaningful and a truer expression of love than a traditional, formulaic vow.
Always check with the person conducting the ceremony, as there are still basic requirements in terms of what must be said and carried out to make the wedding legal.
If you need help creating unique vows, the Ultimate Wedding Vow Toolkit gives you a step-by-step guide plus more than 400 professionally written phrases, 40 classic love poems and sonnets and even some wedding vows from celebrities to help you write your own beautiful and memorable wedding vows.
It is the little touches that make wedding ceremonies special to the individuals involved. Never underestimate the effect that a few well chosen songs or unusual flower arrangements can have on your guests.
Try not to have a rigid idea about the type of flowers that you want. Remember, flowers are very seasonal, so it is always best to ask your florist for professional advice. Also bear in mind that the flowers you chose should complement whatever theme you are following. So, for example, if you are going for simplicity, stick to simple flowers that are classic and understated.
Always check with venues for wedding ceremonies what sorts of floral arrangements they can accommodate. Some venues will have limited space and may need to re-use the area very quickly, so will be unable to cope with large amounts of flowers. If flowers are important to you, remember to check with the wedding ceremonies' venues BEFORE you book or, failing that, request that you are the last wedding of the day.
Thinking about the small things early on will make the big things happen, on the day!
Weddings are a joyous occasion but can get expensive in a hurry. With wedding crafts you can insert a personal touch and hold the price down as well. Here are a few ideas for wedding crafts to add sparkle and creativity to your big day.
It is not that hard to create your own wedding veil. To make this wedding craft, you will need a length of bridal illusion in the desired length. You will also need a comb to attach it to your hair and a hat or headpiece to cover the comb. Sew large running stitches about an inch from the end of the illusion and gather it tightly. Now sew the veil to the comb. Top with hat or headpiece. As an alternative, you can decorate a wide-brimmed straw hat with silk flowers, ribbon, and pearls.
The bouquets and floral arrangements can also be personally crafted. For a simple outdoor wedding, consider wild flowers. They are free and have a charm all their own. Bouquets can be arranged in large clear vases, with a bow tied elegantly around.
Favors for the guests are particularly appropriate wedding crafts. Refrigerator magnets are a simple and well-received favor. A really nice idea is to make a magnetic picture frame and include a picture of the couple. You could cut a frame out of craft foam in one of the wedding colors, arrange over the photo, and glue all onto a cardboard backing. Place self-adhesive magnet tape on the back of the cardboard. Decorate the front of the frame with foil heart stickers and a monogram of the couple's last name.
Bows for the ends of the pews or rows make simple wedding crafts. Wide velvet ribbons are nice for fall and winter weddings, while satin is more appropriate for spring and summer weddings. Loop some flat lace in with the ribbons. In the center of the completed bow, attach some silk flowers and pearl sprays with a hot glue gun.
Perhaps you'd like to try your hand at decorating your own cake. Check the craft section of the department store for pans and gadgets of all types to help you create a cake to remember. Do remember, though, that it takes a steady hand. Be sure to practice before starting on the real cake.
Preparing for a wedding can be expensive, but with wedding crafts, you can take some of the sting out. Plan early, however, because it will take a little while to make favors for everyone and all the other little details you will want to take care of. Maybe creating wedding crafts will even relieve some of those wedding jitters. In any event, crafting your own wedding items is a way to have a personal, beautiful, and less expensive wedding
Following are a few wedding decoration ideas that we hope you find helpful. The wedding decoration should reveal the style of the party and, at the same time, receive a personal touch that reflects the personalities of the bride and groom.
Some couples prefer a very colorful wedding with a large variety of flowers and decorations. This is more common for day weddings.
Weddings done outdoors can take advantage of the natural beauty. Don´t exagerate with the flower arrangements or you will take away from nature´s gift.
The floral decoration should reflect your personality and style. Flowers are attention-grabbers and, therefore, set the tone of the ceremony.
White flowers transmit sofistication. Red flowers create a romantic atomsphere. White and pale yellow or white and lilise flower arrangements offer a touch of delicacy.
Choose the primary color that you like most and look for other complimentary colors. Make sure the colors chosen combine with other items like table cloths and dinner ware.
If you use flower arrangements on the tables, make sure they are short enough that those seated can see over them. Due to technological advances in cultivation, you can basically choose the flowers you want independent of the season.
Candles and torches add a nice romantic touch at night but be careful, especially if there will be many children present. The last thing you want is to have someone start a fire or burn themselves with hot wax.
The wedding reception should follow the same style as the ceremony. You don´t want anyone going into visual shock.
Just remember that using good ol´ common sense is fundamental to guaranteeing that your wedding decoration is a delight to the eyes and still fits within your budget.
The wedding reception usually accounts for 30% or more of your wedding budget. Most wedding receptions are so expensive due to the fact of providing meals, decorations, hall rentals etc. There are, however, ways to reduce these expenses. We've included a few cost-cuttin ideas below. You can get a lot more by downloading our free collection of Tips to Cutting Wedding Costs.
Wedding Reception Themes
Reception themes allow people to get creative with their celebration and express themselves. People often choose to base their themes on hobbies, personal interests, and dreams. It can be very costly to host a reception. That is why the majority of your wedding budget is spent on it. Themes help to cut the costs because you can choose to use a casual theme that doesn’t require a great deal of extras. Choosing themes like beach themes, Mexican fiestas, or toga party is simple and the food is cheap and easy. Take a look at some more themes to lessen the cost of your reception.
When it comes to themes, the possibilities are endless. Coming up with them can be much of the fun. After you have chosen your theme, you can brainstorm ideas to expand upon it for the decorations and foods.
Wedding Reception Location Rental
Reserve your reception hall. Halls book up quickly with not only wedding, but also anniversaries, fundraisers, etc. book your hall early to guarantee your date will be available.
When meeting with banquet manager/coordinator for the first time, consider the following:
• Are their extra costs (gratuity, tax on food, etc.), if having bar service gets a break down on prices and gratuity?
• Ask about what is included in the room fee. There may be items included that you may have thought you would have to pay for separately.
• Inquire about deposits and payment details
• Find out when you can decorate.
• Find out if the facility has decorations to rent to save you money
• Ask about your allotted time frame for your room so you can coordinate with your other vendors (videographer, photographer, DJ, etc.)
• Ask your facility coordinator for their help. They do receptions almost every weekend throughout the year and have much experience on what works well and what does not
• Ask for recommendations for videographers, photographers, DJs, florists, cakes, transportation, etc. Facility coordinators work alongside many other vendors and are a great source to make recommendations for other vendors.
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